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Most women look older and neglect their appearance after marriage. It is something that just happens after having a child and staying at home.

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The work load lying ahead of them. Having to take care of their home and family. Others have a bad mentality of thinking that so long as that have a husband, they don't need to look smart which is also one of the major turn off for husband's.women should keep themselves neat at all times.
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Women who neglect themselves tend to take care of everybody else in the family  and see for themselves last. It is important to take care of a family,  but focus on themselves to avoid neglect.
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Yes. They should still have that self love and remember that they need to look presentable no matter the work load and the chores lying ahead for them. 
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In some cases women neglect themselves due to the responsibilities that they have, sometimes it's not intentional but taking care of the home the children and husband can cause u to put urself last. And there are some who believe that once they are married they no longer need to do what they did to get the man. But in fact whatever u did to get the man u need to do to keep him.so some times women should take at least  1 day a week to do something for themselves or try beautify ur self before taking on ur busy day. 
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Danelle You are so right! It makes a lot of sense. Women certainly need their time out to relax and accept their new lifestyle. Be who they are and not what their husbands want them to be. Thank you
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Your most welcome. And i believe that once ur husband decided to marry u u were already what he wanted u to be :)

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No, a man marries a woman maybe from his parent's pressure. he may not like the girl. so he wants the women to be like what his parents want to be. but each man should understand that a woman is also an individual and have their own wishes and dreams. but a woman has to sacrifice all this for the man and family.It is not fair
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That is not neglecting themselves,it's self sacrifice to serve your family.
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I think this is just because they are now older and have bigger responsibilities to them now such as, taking care of their children and husbands and don't have time for self care which makes them look older and tired sometimes
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Women are extremely emotional and dedicated towards their families. After marriage, family becomes their first priority. They have a lot of duties to take care of. Thus, they tend to neglect themselves after marriage. However, I personally do not support this and such behavior needs to be changed. Women are told from the beginning by the society that they should take care of their families, but people forget to tell them that they should take care of themselves too. Self love and self care are extremely important. Also, husbands and children should be equally responsible to take care of their wifes and mothers. 
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Women tend to the needs  of the  entire  household resulting to neglect their own needs. This is quite common  if you are just  a  newly wed or right after having your first baby. This is a way for women to tell how committed  and dedicated they are to  ensure that  the needs  of the family is taken priority before  theirs. 
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There are so many reasons why women are in this kind of situation. One factor to consider is having post-partum depression. If they do have it, then it will surely happen.
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I will make sure that I maintain my body even if am married. Most women do that because bof all the responsibilities they have of raising the kid and taking care of the family plus working. The limited time you get you just want to rest and all but I really want a difference for myself. I really want my future to be better. 
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Most of these women thinks that when they get married all they need to do is to focus on how to move their marriage only, they giveup on their dreams.
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It's not neglecting themselves,it's selflessness and commitment to serve family to ensure prosp erity and success is achied in the family.
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Others have a bad mentality of thinking that so long as that have a husband, they don't need to look smart which is also one of the major turn off for husband's.women should keep themselves neat at all times.
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It is not necessarily true that women neglect themselves after marriage. The stress of child labour, taking care of the kids, cooking, and taking care of the home all wear in on her. These are the major factors.
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