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Love  is something that makes you want to be with your partner. Living together before marriage is sometimes a choice.
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Some people do that saying that they are going to know the partner better but a mistake always follows.

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Yes. To see if the relationship will last and is what you both want... something kind of like a 'test run' for the long term if you will.
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Biblically it's not right. But I am living with my partner at the moment and we're not married. The good thing about it is, that we're getting to know each other better. When u live with someone u get to find out the type of person ur with and then u will know if u want to spend the rest of your life with them. This will prevent divorce which we are strongly against. So in my opinion it's better to get to know u than marry u and regret it. Marriage is a lifetime thing, not something to play around with. But again I repeat living together and not married is not right biblically. 
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Yes you are right. But again remember that not everyone reads the bible and is a Christian so some people may end up not noticing it.
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Your right not every one knows about the bible but even in culture these things have been passed on from generations so its a practise. 
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To me it is not right, it can make the man or woman lose the value that the couples that don't stay together will have for each before marriage, so it is not right.
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Nice answer you have a very important point in that answer you are correct it is not right to do such thing.
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 I wouldn't live with him before marriage. Love is there and mostly you yearn for each other but lets not forget the Bible is there guiding us. 

This is because, the Bible sees that as sin since you have not been permissioned to live as husband and wife. 
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It is your choice to live with your partner before marriage from which ever background you come from only you can know what is best for you. Living together is a way to learn about partner.
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Nowadays this come we stay has brought so much pain and disrespect to the marriage institution. 

People are not taking it seriously no more. 
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Well it depends on someone's mindset and at times you find that some couples trust each other enough to start living with each other before getting married. In my case I think it would depend on the relationship between me and my partner and how long we've been together.
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Research indicates that living together before marriage may actually increase your risk for divorce in the future.  Probably one of the most popular reasons for moving in together before getting married is distinctively financial. Simply put, you can save money by joining households. 
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It depends on what country you are living in. It varies from one culture to another. Some people do live in with their partners without marriage. Others are not into this idea.
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I can't I will never do that, I live in a society where women need to clean and do stuff for their men. It is not like am complaining but it is somehow unfair, most people who do that in my country specifically men only want people who can help them with house chores. Unless am married I won't be living with any man plus all the adjasment you have to make to love with someone. You can't be sure if your relationship will last settling in is not a good idea to me, I will never do that. 
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Personally I won't leave with my partner until we are officially married reason been that the society we live in frawns about it and mostly it a sin andGod does not permit that.
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I am currently living with my partner before we are married. It is a choice whether you want to do this or not. I honestly am glad we're living together first because we've grown incredibly close since moving in together and it is giving me a glimpse of how our married life will be. We honestly did move in together out of necessity because we both ended up needing to move out of our previous residences pretty quickly and weren't having much luck being accepted for apartments individually and it was going to be very hard for us to swing paying for a place by ourselves. The very second we started applying together, we were accepted to our current apartment. 2 years later we're still going strong and closer than ever.
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According to some religion it's prohibited and refered as pornication.As per my only opinion it might be good idea to live together before marriage because you will have time to learn behavior and personality of another.
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For me, it's a no. I will not live together with my partner before marriage. I was brought up in a culture that still prefers the sacred vows of marriage first before living with my partner for good. 
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Yes we love together because we loved each other too much even though we can't think to live seprately we have nice understanging between each other we never fight in any issue so we lived together.
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The good thing about it is, that we're getting to know each other better. When u live with someone u get to find out the type of person ur with and then u will know if u want to spend the rest of your life with them. This will prevent divorce which we are strongly against. So in my opinion it's better to get to know u than marry u and regret it. Marriage is a lifetime thing, not something to play around with. But again I repeat living together and not married is not right biblically
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This is called courtship. This period affords the couple the opportunity to notice , check and work on any strange quality that might affect the success of the marriage, so the answer is yes.
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The decision to live together before marriage can be practical because it allows couples to get to know each other on a deeper level. By sharing a living space, couples can learn more about each other's daily habits, routines, and preferences, which can help them make informed decisions about whether or not they want to spend the rest of their lives together.
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A big Noooo!

I can never live with a man before marriage, that is not right at all. But I will be coming once in a while to visit him until he comes to my father's house and perform all the marriage rites, that is when I can pack in with him.
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Yes, it is entirely possible for couples to live together before marriage if both partners are in agreement and feel comfortable with the arrangement. This is often referred to as cohabitation or living in a domestic partnership. Many couples choose to do so to test compatibility, share living expenses, and better understand each other before making a long-term commitment through marriage. However, it's important that both partners are on the same page regarding their expectations, responsibilities, and the future of their relationship. It's a personal decision that should be made with open communication and mutual consent.
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However, I can provide you with different perspectives on the topic.

Individuals and couples have different beliefs and preferences when it comes to living together before marriage. Some couples choose to live together before marriage as a way to learn more about each other, establish compatibility, and test the waters before making a long-term commitment. They may see cohabitation as an opportunity to strengthen their relationship and ensure they are compatible as roommates and partners.

On the other hand, some individuals and cultures may have traditional values or religious beliefs that discourage or prohibit living together before marriage. They may view marriage as a commitment that should precede cohabitation.

Ultimately, the decision whether to live together before marriage is a personal one that should be based on individual preferences, values, and beliefs. It's important for couples to openly communicate and make decisions that align with their shared values and goals.
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I would not live together with my partner before marriage but rather I would just visit him from time to time in his house. I believe I would move in after marriage.
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