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One of the best tips which I'm going to offer you would be to delegate some work to other people and try not to do everything by yourself. 
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Stay stress free,remember it is your day and let other people work the job for you.
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Tips to remain calm during wedding plan

Prioritize

Create a detail budget

Put together to a do list

Consider hiring a wedding planner

Don't be afraid to delicate task

Schedule time for planning 

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Delegation. During the planning stages of a wedding, everyone has their idea and what should or should not be done. Normally families are the worst. They want to tell you how to do it. This is the hardest part to keep calm and try to please everyone. Well, this won't happen because it is your wedding and you need to be happy on the big day. Here are a few ideas to help make the planning successful and in the end make both sides of the family happy.

  1. Invite your parents and his over for dinner to talk about the wedding.
  2. Make a list of what you'd like each of them to do to help out.
  3. Let them know this is your day and this is what you really want and it would be great if they could help you make your dream wedding come true.
  4. If your mother wants to make the food you should ask his mother if she has any ideas as to what they should serve. Put the two mom's together to make the menu. This way they are both happy and in the end, it all works out for you.
  5. You can do the same with the flowers and the cake. But make sure you let them know that you have the final say so on what the cake should look like.
  6. Normally the father's won't be that much of a problem. They might want to deal with the music, where the wedding will take place or maybe the photographer. But normally they are easy going and just worrying about how much it will cost and to not go over budget. This might be your biggest problem. Making sure your ideas fit within your parent's budget. So you might have to make a few changes if both parents say that is way too expensive. 
  7. When you need help, ask. That is the best ways to stay calm. Ask one of your family members to help you out.
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For me first thing first, accept that you will get a whole lot of stress while planning and organizing your wedding. If you accept that there are things that are worst to happen, minutes before your wedding will begin, then you are preparing yourself for the worst. I cannot help you with saying keep calm and just get married, but I will tell you in times of stress, remember that a lot people experience stress during the wedding but they go over it, they accepted the challenge and the wedding happened. You will not go through it. Second, you need to not over think. Don't be negative. If you are planning your wedding, it is needed to feel positive so that everything will go into flow. The universe for sure will give you what you want to happen if you already pictured the wedding in your imagination
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It should be realized that events comes with it own stress and pains and a wedding isn't an exception. Things might go haywire and not as planned but the best bet is being calm and following everything through.

The sure bet is telling self I wouldn't gain anything by flaring up,throwing tantrums like a child or ranting over a silly mistake, when once we tell ourselves this obvious truth then we will be able to see mostly good even a seemly ugly or appalling situation.

Another thing is to have a positive mindset.Try to make good of any annoying situation, see how to salvage than boiling with anger and be more polite to all that tries to help and you will see the benefits of all that than just getting angry over even little disputes.
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Yeah that's true. Make things right to avoid being annoyed about some things that possibly may happen 
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Frome the experiences that i have come across from friends and relatives, i have come to the conclusion, if you want to have a wedding please have money set aside for it so that you don't have to depend on other people to plan the wedding for you.
The second thing is be sure of you want. Specifics are good do not put decisons on your family and friemds entirely, have a say in what you want, its your day, you make the decisions.
Be firm always, being too calm and too humble can mess you up. Am saying this because people will come up with all sorts of things and they will expect ypu to accepet what they want.

Always have a plan B just incase your original plan doesn't work. Have a wedding planner look around carefully and get one that is certified, that will ease the tension of having to move all over the place.
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Seriously, it's never easy at all when you are planning your own especially when you haven't helped out any friends of yours in the past to plan for his or her own wedding before it's your own time to plan for your own wedding. Sometimes, you are definitely going get so confused about even the simplest things which under a normal circumstances it wouldn't be any issue or problems for you to deal with at all.


From my experience with wedding planning, it's the wedding pressure that makes it horrible for anyone who is planning for his or her wedding. So, most times people who are supposed to plan for their wedding all choose the easy way out by contracting the wedding planning out and paying for it. They only have to seat back and make calls to know if everything has been put in place for the wedding.
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I guess planning a wedding is a mixed emotion. You're excited on the day, worried about things may happen because of overthinking, being serious with the commitment you will accept
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Only focus on your mind, health and intention a while before ceremony. Prepare all things long before married and delegate it to an event organizer, friends or family. Think that it is only a day/2 day party, don't too spend much energy for that.
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It is a hectic time and everyone wants it to be as colorful and  enjoyable to all. Stay calm by delegating duties have people do the job. It is your day and you need to be relaxed as much as possible. 
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I think it is hard to calm down when you are overwhelmed. But still make a colorful and wonderful event through that.
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When you are at your peak of wedding, you will be more inspired rather than usual. It is a perfect time to do such works and be able to finish it with a pleasure. Your partner gives you the motivation you need while at your job, use it perfectly for you to be proud of it and proud of Her at the end of the day. 
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The best tip is to plan ahead of time. Cramming is not a good thing when it comes to this wedding plan. Then, let others need to have their tasks.
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It is normal to be under pressure when organising your wedding, but you can actually put all these pressure and stress on your wedding planner, family or friends to handle.
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Don't panic if things are not perfect or working according to plan try to be patient and sociable with people always simple and be positive minded.
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1. Take Breaks: Give yourself breaks throughout the planning process. Taking a break from the planning can help reduce stress and give you a fresh perspective.

2. Set Priorities: Decide what is most important to you and your partner and prioritize those items. Don’t waste time worrying about minor details that don’t really matter.

3. Ask for Help: Don’t be afraid to ask for help from friends and family. It can be overwhelming to plan a wedding alone, so don’t be afraid to ask for assistance.

4. Make Time for Fun: Don’t forget to make time for fun during the wedding planning process. Take a break to do something you enjoy, like going out to dinner or taking a walk.

5. Talk to Your Partner: Talk to your partner about your concerns and make sure you’re both on the same page. This will help ensure that you’re both on the same page and can help keep stress levels down.

6. Set a Budget: Setting a budget and sticking to it will help reduce stress levels during wedding planning. Knowing how much you have to spend can help keep your wedding planning on track.
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There are a lot of different ways to stay calm during wedding planning, but some tips include: being organized and keeping track of what you're looking for during the planning process, being proactive and setting goals for your wedding, trying to find people you know and talk to them during the planning process, and trying to find companies that have the same services and plan to provide your wedding.
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