Is it ok to sacrifice ur happiness for ur love?

Question

If we hav dreamt of having a job in abroad .. is it ok to sacrifice for our love?

Answer 1

No. Never.

Never sacrifice your dream for love. I assume you are chasing your dream for a long time even from childhood but love come in your life just a few years ago.

Now you decide how can you sacrifice your long life dream in front of short life dream.

Your love not going to anywhere, but if you do not achieve anything or just give up your dream then do you think your love will stays with you?

If yes why he/she love to you anymore?

This is really a very genuine question.

Comments

I agree, we should never sacrifice our dream for anyone, not even for our love, because true love means to support and be with our partner to fulfill each other dream, not to pull them down.

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Very well explained...you are right.....it depends on lots of factors we can't just sacrifice our happiness,there has to be a reason.

Answer 2

Yes. Close relationship require sacrifice. In fact, many people include sacrificing in the very definition of what it means to truly love another person. And indeed, research has shown that couples are happier and more likely to remain in their relationship if the partners are willing to sacrifice for each other. Ask yourself what you want. What is more important in your life love or a dream job. Discuss with your partner and know the reason why your partner is not ready to go with you or what both of you can do so that you do not need to sacrifice your dream and you can make your partner also happy. Remember one thing your love is as important for you as your dream. Every problem has a solution.

Comments

Definitely, love is more important than a dream, but sacrifices should never be one-sided in a mutual love relation. Both the person should understand each other and ready to sacrifice for each other happiness. If this is the case then sacrifice is okay for love.

Answer 3

In my view any person happiness is its love and the best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses, and you alone are responsible for the quality of it and this is the day your life really begins.

Answer 4

Noo its is not ok to sacrifice your happiness for your love.

Yes at some points we have to sacrifice but you should think before..wether it is worth it or not

Comments

The word " worth" you used to matter the most. No one's sacrifice should go in vain, especially for a wrong person, because the pain of worthless sacrifice is deeper than the sacrifice you made.

Answer 5

It doesn't matter how strong your feelings are for someone, or how long you've been with them if they do and say things that are harmful to your health and make you unhappy all the time. You should never have to sacrifice your happiness for anyone, and honestly, a loving partner would never ask that of you.

Answer 6

In its most literal sense, the phrase “love is sacrifice” suggests that you have to give things up if you want to be with the one you love. That certainly is true sometimes. For example, if your partner's parent falls ill, they might want to move back home to take care of them or have them move in with you.

Answer 7

Yes, I  would.

Love  knows  no boundaries  at  all. Love  is kind and patient where in some instances, you would need  to  sacrifice some things  that  are either  personal  or does hold a huge  value in your  life. Whatever, it may lead,  if you are meant to be with that person, then you are meant to  be.

Answer 8

No. You you going for work abroad doesn't mean you don't love. If it's a permanent job you can always make arrangements and she comes and stays with you but it it temporary you can always be back to her.

Answer 9

It really depends if that person is really worth the sacrifice,in most cases people would and I would do just to keep the relationship a float.

Answer 10

Making for our future is great and it success comes through hardwork and sacrifice. Sometimes we need to sacrifice the most important things in our lives and it matters but we have to take that decision.

Answer 11

If your love is true there is no need for sacrifice of happiness because your love always convert your all sarrow to hapiness if he or she heartily love you and no need for sacrifices.

Answer 12

It is very wrong for one to sacrifice their happiness for love.No love can infact exist without happiness and no happiness can exist without love These two have to be balanced

Answer 13

If it is better for everyone, I think it is fine to sacrifice. If your partner loves you that much, he or she can understand why it needs to work abroad.

Answer 14

no Never sacrifice your happiness or dreams for your love as if you will sacrifice your happiness for your love so one day you will surely regret it also

Answer 15

It depends on the person if he/she prefers love over work then one must sacrifice his/her work for the mean time. If you think if your are happy where are you now as long as you can still manage your career to survive on your everyday life.

Answer 16

Never ever sacrifice your happiness for anyone. Always put yourself first. Just because you sacrifice your happiness for someone doesn't means they will do the same. If they had the same opportunity they wouldn't think twice about taking it.

Answer 17

Sacrifice is something almost everybody does in life, it can be small way or a big way, if you sacrifice your dream job for love then it ok as long as you won't regret it.

Answer 18

If they are truly your love, as in they love you as much as you do them, they will not MAKE you sacrifice your dream for them. There are some things you can definitely sacrifice for them but your dreams shouldn't be one of them. Someone that loves you would find a way to make it work so you can have your dream and stay with them too.

Answer 19

Love is your ability to make sacrifices for others. But this entirely depends on the type of sacrifice. In the context of your question, if you truly love the person, you should sit down and discuss what is best for the relationship. If traveling abroad will bring you financial freedom, let your partner know, you can make arrangements for her to join you when you finally settled there. This also is a form of sacrifice, which must not be a one way thing.

Answer 20

The concept of sacrificing one's happiness for love is complex and subjective. You must consider love and relationship should ideally involve mutual support and understanding.