Most of the people actually do not think before they speak or act. It is the main problem in human life. What's the best way to get rid of it?
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My personal opinion with this, as a person you should always listen or understand the situation first before you react or do something Don't just say or do some things that you don't mean just for the sake of doing it or saying it. Be careful with your words, be careful with your actions because it might hurt people, and sometimes its better not to say/do anything that doesn't benefit other people or yourself.
Great question! The answer (personally speaking) is in the breathing. As in before speaking one (at least) deep breath thru the nose out the mouth. Same for public speaking or any speaking. It's ok to pause tho you, yourself will feel like you've paused too long when in reality you did not. Does this help? lol
Determine if what you want to say is True. Reflect on what you are about to say and ask yourself if it’s the truth. Don’t make something up just to have something to say and don’t speak if you’re about to tell a lie. If you need to respond with something, at least modify what you’re about to say so that it is the truth.
Think before you speak or act.
1. When ever you are talking with some one just think, take a pause and think and ask yourself, it is true. Do not lie or do not talk anything without any proof or evidence. Only talk about anything when you are sure. Do not spread rumors.
2. Second think you need to remember that whatever you are telling to others is helpful for other person or not. Do not talk about anything that can hurt anyone.
3. Always inspire, give courage and motivation to others. Talk about inspiration stories that can help anyone to grow in his career or help them to achieve their goals.
4. Think before you speak or act that it is necessary or not. clarify any doubt if anyone has regarding anything if you think it is necessary to tell him/her like any warning, any traffic jam in specific area but do not talk unnecessarily.
5. Always talk with everyone nicely and kindly. Always talk about good things. If you do not have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all.
1. When ever you are talking with some one just think, take a pause and think and ask yourself, it is true. Do not lie or do not talk anything without any proof or evidence. Only talk about anything when you are sure. Do not spread rumors.
2. Second think you need to remember that whatever you are telling to others is helpful for other person or not. Do not talk about anything that can hurt anyone.
3. Always inspire, give courage and motivation to others. Talk about inspiration stories that can help anyone to grow in his career or help them to achieve their goals.
4. Think before you speak or act that it is necessary or not. clarify any doubt if anyone has regarding anything if you think it is necessary to tell him/her like any warning, any traffic jam in specific area but do not talk unnecessarily.
5. Always talk with everyone nicely and kindly. Always talk about good things. If you do not have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all.
As the saying goes 'THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SPEAK', don't talk too much.
Excessive needless talking is usually a sign of nervousness or stupidity. Before you say something, ask yourself, “Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?” Speak only if the answer to these three questions is YES.
Avoid talking about bad, unpleasant, destructive subjects. Instead, talk about the good things you’ve seen or want to experience. If you do have to mention something unpleasant, use tact and gentleness, find something positive to say to offset the negative, and be brief.
Praise liberally. Sincere compliments, thanks, and other appreciative words are always welcome.The more genuine praise you give, the more positively people will respond to you, the more confidence you’ll feel, and the more successful you’ll be in your life.
Finally, speak calmly and as much as possible, avoid angry words. Angry words create enemies, drain your energy, and make you ill
Excessive needless talking is usually a sign of nervousness or stupidity. Before you say something, ask yourself, “Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?” Speak only if the answer to these three questions is YES.
Avoid talking about bad, unpleasant, destructive subjects. Instead, talk about the good things you’ve seen or want to experience. If you do have to mention something unpleasant, use tact and gentleness, find something positive to say to offset the negative, and be brief.
Praise liberally. Sincere compliments, thanks, and other appreciative words are always welcome.The more genuine praise you give, the more positively people will respond to you, the more confidence you’ll feel, and the more successful you’ll be in your life.
Finally, speak calmly and as much as possible, avoid angry words. Angry words create enemies, drain your energy, and make you ill
It is very important to have a logical connection established between your mouth an brain before you speak. Sometimes, when you are upset, angry or sad, you tend to choose wrong words. Also, when you are too happy, you tend to overcommit. Hence, the first step to do is to calm down. Think logically if your really need to express or not. Link your sentences when you speak. No matter how angry you are, try to maintain a normal tone. You cannot completely eliminate the habit of speaking quickly without something. But you can control this habit.