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In a condition where you truely love your patner and dream of spending whole life with him, but he is not serious about anything even after getting opportunity he don't to work hard and doesn't care about future or have any planning, then what should one do?

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Ultimately, it's up to you. But, if he doesn't want to contribute or work, you are going to be left doing the majority of the work. If you're comfortable with working harder and supporting him then continue. But, it may not be a compatible match.
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So true, I agree with your reply, but sometimes it's so hard to choose what is right and what right should be done.
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There is misguided  judgment that adoration influences your future. They are two distinct things and one ought to figure out how to keep them discrete. In the event that you can't zero in on future when you enamored ,simply don't fall head over heels and control your feelings. Yet, in the event that you over see appropriately and give time and have clear considerations about future and love, it turns out to be not difficult to oversee them together.
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Both together future first and love good think

Love is god and future is nessesry for live  so both is required
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In my opinion, one should never live with a person who runs away from his responsibility, because at the beginning of love everything is so beautiful and nice but once you have the responsibility of family after marriage, things start getting worse day by day.
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Love should always be given preference over other wordly things. Love makes everything possible if it is pious and of bidirectional nature. Love is responsible for the stability of life and of the whole universe. I am talking about true love.
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When sought, love is like a butterfly that is out of reach; nevertheless, if you are patient enough, it may alight onto you. Regardless of your age, love is the most essential thing in your life. When you fall in love with someone, you expect something in return, and you also prefer to give things away. When you're a youngster, you need your parents' love; when you're older, you need it from family and friends.

Love has a distinct meaning for the individual who is in love. It cannot, on the contrary, be received without also being given to all those who offer it to you. If you are torn between love and the future, you must consider some additional factors.

For example, if you are a teenager who is torn between love and the future, will it be justifiable if you fail to deliver on what your parents, relatives, and friends want from you? Will you be able to explain your actions if you achieve in love but fail in your own future based on your abilities? Simply ask yourself, what will you leave behind in society, what will you be known for?

Every such circumstance, regardless of age, necessitates a decision. So I'd just advise you to make good judgments and do your own calculations. Nobody understands your predicament better than you. No one, save you, is the greatest judge of what you select.
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Choice choice choice. Everything comes down to the choice and the ramification  of it. You suffer through the aftermath and live your life.  It is completely up to you to decide, but I would incline towards finding an alternative if the person that you get  love from is worth it.
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If someone doesn't see a future and just wants to spend his life with me, I'll rather create my future first and true love will find me . This is because, living together with no job or how to pay bills will worsen everything
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First choose future and make you best position in the society than love automatically come to you .if you choose live first than future may b darken.its totally depend upon you.
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to be honest be honest i advise you go for future and going for future does not mean letting go off your girl so u can be after your future will you have the girl but in anycase it should be your futre
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It is best to talk to this person heart-to-heart. If he continues to be an easy-go-lucky guy, then you need to think more than twice now. It means he is not a serious type of person at this very moment. Unless you are a martyred soul and wait for him to turn to a new leaf.
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I choose future (my learning, my work,...)

Because love especially when we are young may lead us to fail we are just focusing in love not in our future 
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unfortunately, i will not chose the love i will choose the future because future is everything it is love it is world it is life and it is the MONEY.
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Future is also important because how can you survive with a partner if he doesn't have any plans for the future? If he is a family man what will happen to his family if he doesn't have the disposition to improve or grow for his own family? There is nothing wrong with love as long as it will serve as inspiration to achieve your goals in the future. I know that there are some situations where no matter how you strive in life nothing happens and changes. I guess this will depend on each person if they have a certain goal or dream that they want to achieve. Maybe your partner needs more motivation or encouragement from you so that he will become more inspired in all he is doing. Since you love him you can help him this way so that you both can have a better life future ahead of you.  
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I think i will choose future because the future has alot to offer even love also and get this any love that will make you lose your future is not worth loving.
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If you can have both then why not. But for me I'd choose my future. If that person really loves you he'll support you and follow your dreams as well. I choose future because it's where we stand for ourselves and do whatever it takes for us to reach our goals. Our future is brighter if we strive rather than just love to another person
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I'd definitely choose future because we can survive without love but not without our future and most importantly a ruined future if that's the case.
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To be honest your future is more important than anything else if you don't plan well about it then be ready to face what ever life has for you as for me i will choose my future because if I live a good life a better person will locate me. 
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Your future is the most important of all things.Your future matters alot because it will determine the kind of person you will be but is not a must and you love whoever loves you.
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obviously future should be better love doesn't matter. life is practical thing. its not based on emotions. life based on worst lessons. 
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For me, it's future.  I want to have a good future so when I meet my one true love I will not be a headache to him or someone he needs to feed for I can do it myself.
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