How do I get my mom to stop nagging me to get the covid shot?

Question

basically, this has been ongoing, my mom is convinced the vaccine is the miracle drug that will make covid go away, when all I am seeing is people either getting maimed by it, or dying OF it, and I don't wanna be one of the statistics that either got maimed by it, or killed by it, and she keeps trying to deploy the whole "one of us" strategy to make me get it, my sister has even tried bribing me into getting it, and I am not falling for any of it. It's stressing me out, I just wish for them to respect my wishes, I did not force them to NOT get the vaccine, so why should they have the right to force ME to get it? I support free choice, it's not my place to tell them not to get it, so it shouldn't be their place to tell me that I NEED to get it. I just want peace of mind knowing that they at least respect my wishes instead of getting bent out of shape and trying to control what I do with myself.

It's my body, what I do or not do with it is my choice, they have no say in what I do or don't do with it, nor do they have a say on what goes into it or stays out of it, there are better options like ivermectin and regeneron that have a higher success rate at CURING covid, than the failed vaccines have of stopping it's spread. Heck, even vitamin C, D and suppliments like turmeric has a better chance of ensuring you are able to fight it off than the vaccine has of preventing it. I am at my wits end and I am sick of the constant drama my family is creating when I say no. It is the whole "How DARE you go against fauci and the government, big government knows best, so stop resisting and get the shot." because I am sick and tired of hearing it from them and I wish my family would get that flawed notion out of their heads that I HAVE to get it. I need advice on how to deal with their nagging, because to be frank, my parents are acting like those karens and kevins that flip out when you go about unvaccinated, it's flat out ostrocization, and it's not fair that I have to sell my beliefs out just to make a couple of snowflakes feel better around me, all because they are family.

Answer 1

You cannot...you can only resist and refuse. They will continue to pressure you to do what they demand, whether it is taking the clotshot, wear the clothes they like, date someone they like, or something else. Trying to change their minds is pointless. You could show them the evidence of risk at opervaers.com/covid-data or vaccineimpact.com, but it's a waste of time. The MSM has done such a through job of indoctrination that no amount of evidence which challenges the provax mindset will ever be enough. Even if your sister went into convulsions, and died at her feet, Mommy would just lay the blame onto anything other than the vaccine. It's a lost cause, so focus on polite refusal, and move away as soon as you turn 18.

Answer 2

In India, the supreme court has ordered that under article 21, no one can force to get covid-19 shot. Also insist government to avoid asking covid-19 vaccine certificate. Restrictions should be avoided on entry of public places. 

Comments

I think this is a good decision and a big step taken towards fighting the COVID 19 pandemic in india

Answer 3

In the land of the Philippines, people have the right to refuse the idea of having vaccines in their system. I am not sure in your country if you have the same principle. I hope your mom will not keep on nagging about it. The best way is to talk with her heart-to-heart.

Answer 4

I do not want to be the judge of you but I would encourage you to take the shot because it is good for you and your body.But if you don't really want to consider talking to her and telling her how you feel.

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op here, I am already out on my own and in my thirties and on disability due to me being on the spectrum, as well as for anxiety, this exchange happened over text messages,  which ontop of everything else that was happening did not help me the least little bit for my mental health, I already have anxiety issues and did not need everyone guilt tripping me into getting the clot shot, I would rather be alive and survive covid naturally, I do not need blood clots and an erased immune system. I had survived not just covid 19 without it, but also hemorragic fever a month ago, all on supportive treatment, my immune system kept me alive along with the immuno boosting foods I ate during the times I was eating. That being said, they since then stopped nagging me, I also stopped telling them when I got it, they will not nag about what they don't know.

Answer 5

Remember mama only wants what's best for you . Mothers are the most concerned and important part of ourselves and they will stop at nothing to ensure we ba e a good life. There's a good way of speaking with your mom and let her understand your views and opinions about the vaccine 

Answer 6

Your mum is worried that you might get covid.She loves you and is worried  that if you died she will lose you.Jusy let her know that you are taking other precautionary measures to prevent the disease from getting you.Let her know that the shots are voluntary.

Answer 7

You cannot...you can only resist and refuse. They will continue to pressure you to do what they demand, whether it is taking the clotshot, wear the clothes they like, date someone they like, or something else. Trying to change their minds is pointless.

Answer 8

The MSM has done such a through job of indoctrination that no amount of evidence which challenges the provax mindset will ever be enough. Even if your sister went into convulsions, and died at her feet, Mommy would just lay the blame onto anything other than the vaccine. It's a lost cause, so focus on polite refusal, and move away as soon as you turn 18.

Answer 9

dying OF it, and I don't wanna be one of the statistics that either got maimed by it, or killed by it, and she keeps trying to deploy the whole "one of us" strategy to make me get it, my sister has even tried bribing me into getting it, and I am not falling for any of it. It's stressing me out