Question

I'm in love with him but he sees me only as a friend. What should I do?

Comments

It hurts when someone you love doesn't love you the same. But, you have to accept that if you really love that person.

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My advice for you is to not kill yourself over any man because it's not worth it. 

You're the lady here and it's the man who is supposed crave you more and not the other way around.

Answer 1

It is so hard to pretend to be friends with someone special when everytime you look at the person, all you see is everything you want to have. The longer you stay in the friendzone, the harder it isto get out.

Comments

I would consider this true basing on the variety of options and knowledgeable points you added to this answer.

Answer 2

You cannot do anything. Let the course of the universe unite together. I think it is best to stay away from him. Sometimes love is not all we can get. In time, this friendship with him will grow more than being friends. At this point in time, you cannot force yourself to him.

Comments

This is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.

Answer 3

if you really love him, firstly tell about your feeling upon him that how much you love him. just try to get to know what his reaction after knowing about feeling & give him time to think about it for decision because love is the thing you can't force to do it, so my suggestion is to give a chance to give love. by the way love is form of different forms:

• Friend love
• Family Love
• Partner Love

So, your love is precious to him so give chance to understand him and take right decision, you need to give time and wait for response. you should not do such thing which he can get irritated, if any rejection just forgive him. Love is patience & you can win a love by patience.

Comments

I didn't know this,but now I know this is very useful information about the matter at hand.

Answer 4

So if he seem as friend. So you will make friend you him and do all of the thing those he like and will try to understand to him you are in love with him. You will try again and over again. He accept you as love. 

 It is all allready happen with me and she was accept me after 18 months. So please try.

Comments

This is quite a reasonable and knowledgeable answer and I think you are quite right considering the angle you are seeing the question from.

Answer 5

Just show your real personality and give attention to him, even to a little things. He will recognize that you have special feeling to him, and also that you're a kind girl who always gives sweet attention to him. Also be a firtst person if he need help or if he find a sadness things in his life. At least you have done some efforts, if he finds comfort with you and think you're special one, he would be falling in love with you.

Comments

Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite right.

Answer 6

Try and express how you feel to him.He might also feel the same for you.But if he doesn't you just have to let go so that you don't lose your friendship as well

Comments

Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.

Answer 7

I think you should sat him down and talk to him and ask him if he is serious with you and you should also ask him to open up and you also need to open up tell everything you have in heart 

Comments

Basically this point of view is very very legit and understandable let's hope people can take it in the right way.I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do.

Answer 8

If he sees you as a friend only, forget your feelings for him. You will just hurt yourself. Continue to be friends with him so that there will be no awkwardness for both of you. I am pretty sure that there are a lot of boys at your place, you can still find someone who will accept your love, who will love you back. One sided relationship is not good and painful.

Comments

Generally your idea is quite wise and eligible for stimulating good thinking and the right mindset keep it up.This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimistic.

Answer 9

You can try uponhim. Atleast he isn't playing with you he told you his real feelings. Try to communicate with him. Maybe he will fell for you.

Comments

Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do.

Answer 10

keeping your feeling to yourself wont do you any good so i advise you tell him and see his reaction, if he likes someone else you leave him to be happy if he does not win him over

Comments

I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.Generally your idea is quite wise and eligible for stimulating good thinking and the right mindset keep it up.

Answer 11

Stop this right now it will damage you time by time

Delete his number, his account and you will forget him

You will be able to continue your life without a heart broken find someone who loves you 

Answer 12

It is better to avoid the person. There will be someone for you. My suggestion is to identify someone who loves you rather than going behind someone who didn't like you.

Answer 13

I think you should tell him how you feel and let him know and by doing this you are taking a huge load off your chest and you will feel much better,who knows maybe he likes you too.

Answer 14

For me, i accept the reality, im not force myself to love him/her back... The important is i love so much unconditionally... Because love is given by God. 

Answer 15

If he is already in a relaionship, the better not to confess this may ruin your beautiful friendship. If you think he this is even slight chance that he will respond back the same feeling then go for it give it a try.

Answer 16

Now and again long haul kinships are so difficult and particularly assuming one individual falls profoundly enamored with the other individual. No one can say with any certainty in the event that this individual has a similar inclination for you or not. You realize that he cherishes you in a manner that is unique, yet not precisely the thing you were expecting. It is difficult for you to chat with him over this and presently he has a sweetheart it makes it much harder for you to converse with him. You would rather not ruin your fellowship and simultaneously, it is difficult to associate with him with the inclination you have inside.

Answer 17

It is really important, to be honest with your friend, and confess to him that you do not have similar feelings. Sometimes, you might find yourself crushing on someone because you're around them a lot. So, pay attention to whether your friend is really a good fit for you. 

Answer 18

Well if you love someone but he sees you more like a good friend I advice you keep your self till he realizes whether he also loves you but if he doesn't then you can't force love.

Answer 19

It hurts when you love someone who sees you only just as a friend. Whatever you will try it will not attract him and it will not change his mind. He will keep seeing you the same. I believe that guys know what they want from any women and they don't change their mind about her by time.

I hope you will find someone soon who can appreciate you and your feelings.

Answer 20

It's okay there's still hope. We cannot always get what we want or what we love, just don't let your opportunities close for someone who is ready to love you. Just think about being a better person after that pain so that he'll regret that he don't love you back.