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I know many beautiful ladies staying single. I wonder why no men could get into their hearts. What could be the reason?

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Perhaps they just choose to?

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As a woman, I can say that if a woman is beautiful and also single there could be several good reasons for all this. I have known a lot of beautiful women in school and in my travels with work. Most of the problem is they have been so badly hurt that they are afraid to try again. They also feel that their looks have attracted the wrong type of men in their lives and it is hard for them to find a man who won't look at them for their beauty but for what is inside of them.
Some men are only looking at the beauty of the face and body and not looking deep inside. These people don't want to be admired for their looks but want to be admired for their heart, sold, and mind. They want a man to love them for who they are and not how they look. I think once a man can get past the beauty and look inside you'll find something even more beautiful than the looks you see on the outside.
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Yes. I have also heard many stories of beautiful single ladies. They are afraid to start a new relationship after hurt so much in previous relationship. 
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It's true many men will just run after the beauty of the ladies and forget to look at the inner beauty of the ladies and even up hurting the ladies so much. 
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. It is a very famous saying. That apart, who told you all single ladies are beautiful? It is only your perception. Having said that, there may be a number of reasons as to why a woman or man do not get married and remain single. Those reasons may be either personal or impersonal.

Anyway, whichever man or woman remain single may be their choice in their life. In what way is it going to affect your life or anyone else's life? So, what is the need to find out the reasons as to why a particular man or woman is single ? Is it not a waste of your precious time? Most of the times, you may not be able to find out the real cause of their remaining single. In that case what are you going to do? It is a waste of time and energy.
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Exactly...!! Beauty lies in the eye of beholder. Thanks for your answer. 
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I did some research and found out that a good percentage of those single beautiful ladies aren't always straight. I still don't know the reason behind that but am yet to know.

Another reason could be, men don't trust beautiful ladies because that cannot make good wives and also can't stick to one man. Besides, some of those beautiful ladies are expensive to maintain. I have come to realise that this is true but not all of them.

Still there are those who are beautiful with brains and very indepent. Men fear approaching these kind of ladies. I think that's another reason contributing to them being beautiful. You'll find that these ladies are the one's approaching men instead of it being the other way round.
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It's true some take advantage of their beauty for selfish and materiel gain. They can waste a man's time and not end up in a healthy relationship hence men also fear approaching such ladies. 
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Some are ill suited to a communal lifestyle. Some have unrealistic requirements for a man. Some are as ugly inside as they are beautiful outside. Some are lesbian. Some are frigid. Some are 'damaged goods' (once bitten, twice shy). Some are feminazis that abhor men.
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It is not exactly the true statement for me. There are many beutiful ladies around me who are not single but yes there is huge number that are in cattegory of singles. What i think there could be two reasons.
As there is much proportion of the people who lie in the cattegory that are not pretty much beutiful so they think like she is not goin to say yes for him and take side to not to be embrassed and not to let down himself and the second one is person might think she is so beutiful so she might be possessed or be with someone. Actually they are degrading themself in a sense but yes this is the fact, i have heard these type of words from many persons.
This might be wrong according to others but this is how i get an idea.
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There could be many reasons why a beautiful lady can be single. Being beautiful doesn't mean express ticket to have a partner. There are many qualities that a man or woman can desire in another woman and most times just being beautiful as society deems It doesn't cut it. Perhaps a beautiful woman may be lacking in other important aspects.

People have different definitions of beauty and I'd say there isn't a standard to measure beauty as society does. Every woman is beautiful in her own glory and there's always someone that appreciates their flaws as part of their beautiful and desire them. The next time you see a single lady that you consider pretty, perhaps it is her wish to stay single or the one meant for her hasn't come yet.
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I have not been single for 40+ years.  I started dating when I was 16 years old.  Met my husband when I was 19 years old.  Got married when I was 21 years old.  My husband thought (and thinks) I'm beautiful.  Thanks to him I now have beautiful daughters.  1 daughter is married.  1 daughter is divorced.  2 daughters are single ON PURPOSE.  1 daughter is developing into a beautiful young woman.

I find the question about WHY beautiful women are single an interesting one.  Actually, as a woman, I sort of find the question insulting and cruel.  It's as if saying to a woman ... if you're ugly WE KNOW WHY you're single.    That is not cool!

Also, what's wrong with being single?  I am reminded of a quote by American actress / sex symbol / beautiful woman, Marilyn Monroe who said:  "I'd rather be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone."  I think she spoke from her personal experience. 

Many women deemed beautiful by our society's standards probably get very annoyed and aggravated at the question:  "You're so pretty.  Why are you still single?" 

For those women I would supply the response:  "A man don't choose a woman.  A woman chooses a man.  So far the handsome and ugly men are not worth choosing?  And don't tell me I'm being picky and setting my standards too high!"  smiley

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First, all ladies are beautiful in their own unique way. Second, why they are not married? Maybe because they have more important things to do. I do believe I am beautiful in my unique way so I will just share my decision why. I have lots of responsibility. I am a bread winner in the family so I need to support and provide for them. Since I have little savings, when I get married some day, four sure it will never help me a bit so I think I need to work more to earn more, to save more. I have my family responsibilities and there is this guy that is waiting for me. I will never ready until I am establish and insured, for my family and myself. Some do not get married if they hardly meet their soulmates. It could be a good reason too but how can I know about soulmates if my stomach is aching. I want to be establish before getting married.
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I think some of them feel their too beautiful for some certain men while others have great expectations of what they desire from men that if they don't get them they become disappointed and the next thing they would do is to hit the exit door. There are those that decline suitors offers perhaps they feel they are too young to marry hence they want to rock life before they will know it it's already too late for them to settle down.
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Because they know their worth and they don't want to rush and settle for less.
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Not all woman want to be married and have a family. Especially now days. Many want a career and that is all important to them. Others may have had bad relationships in the past and are not ready to try again for fear the men are just out for arm candy or the surface beauty and do not care about what is inside. And, not all "beautiful" women are beautiful inside and able to have healthy relationships.
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There are two things for beautiful ladies being single. They may be aware they are beautiful. This will get into their heads and do not see a man who will match them and thus being single.

Men may fear them to an extend of not approaching them. It remains a fact they are single.
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It's not about beauty. No matter, whether the girl is beauty or not for committed. Inner soul plays a vital role in relationship. Next thing, they might have some goals in their life. 
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A true man will always look beyond the physical looks and sometimes looks can be deceiving. And also some beautiful ladies fear getting married as they think their beauty will fade as they become moms and tend to remain single. 
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It is her choice for any reason. It might be because she hadn't found the one she's looking for. And guys think if a lady is beautiful then she might already have someone in her life.
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I think beautiful ladies are looking for handsome and forever grateful life partner. They are waiting for heart touching love. 
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Often times they are content being single because they like their freedom and do not seem to like compromise. They are not tamed easily and more interested in the unknown than routine. Relationships do not interest these girls because they want to be able to do whatever they please and not answer to anyone else.

Guys are afraid to approach them because they look like the kind of girl who knows how to reject someone quickly. They think that she must have so many boyfriends and must have very high standards and she can never compromise with them. Mostly beautiful girls are career oriented or must have some set goals in life so she must not stay with them for long and not able to spend much time with them.
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In my book, most women tend to be single because they are married to their careers in life. It usually happens to women living in big cities.
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Yes, women are so ambitious in their careers than us men. They strive more and prove us that they're also strong
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Well, I would say being hurt has a hand in it. Once you get hurt by someone you truley loved you lose faith in love, and it's really hard to trust anyone again. Nomatter how long you take to heal, letting somebody back in becomes impossible. 
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The lady is quite conservative, choosy, and has some sort of insecurities in life. It can be with the kind of attitude of their lifestyle. Others cannot find the right kind of partner or relationship that she is hoping for. Maybe they thought they already met their future partner but in the end, it is not successful because the guy they found is immature or unstable and not willing to give them a serious relationship. At times their relationship is not successful and not end up together. 
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