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Well if you have a friend who you have been close to but for some reason isn't speaking to you anymore, what do you do? 

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Send a text or note asking whether the issue was why you haven't heard from your friend. Ask what you can do to make things right and move forward. Avoid calling your friend out on social media or in front of your other friends.
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Wonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and understanding from you as an individual.
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Maybe you did something wrong to you friend. Time heals, wait for the right time and the pain will heal. Everything happens for a reason.
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Yes I think we all did something bad to each other. She did hurt my feelings at school and I gave her the silent treatment vbut finally I told her than the truth that she hurt my feelings. But now it seems she is doing the same thing, we have closed school so we can't see each other face to face. 
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Call your friend and talk to him, find out the reason for the long silence. You can take the lead role and open the conversation with your friend. From this you will be able to know the problem and work on it.  
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  1. Talk to them politely. 
  2. Try to apologize. 
  3. Talk with the friend's parents to know the reason for the fight
  4. Talk to someone who trusts you
  5. Remain claim and try to bring back the friend
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Continue your life, if the fault from him don't talk to him anymore search for another friend there's billions of people in our world

If the fault from you keep your apologizes if he forgive that's cool and If not continue also your life and don't be sad
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First of all I will try to know what is the problem and why my friend isn't speaking to me anymore, I will take in consideration if my friend is good and facing no problem or maybe my friend is busy. I will contact my friend to check if everything is okay and will ask for the reason why he/she stop speaking to me. If my friend need help I will help him/her but if I discover that my friend is not speaking to me and don't want to be friends anymore for no reason or for a misunderstanding , I will respect that but if one day they ask for friendship again I will not accept.
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I find this information quite useful, indeed I share your point of view and I understand you,this is quite reasonable.
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Sometimes your friend need time for himself or herself  to be alone and he or she may not even share his problem to anyone not even to a close friend.

As for me I think it's okay for my friend to have time for himself and maybe if  he feels he would want to speak to me I'm always their for him at any given time and moment. 
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well i would give her a few days to thinks and calm down, the i would call her on the phone and if she doesnt answer me i would send hera whatsapp and as a last option i would goto her house and talk to her and ask her why she bothered and what i can do to remedy the situation
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La amistad, muchas veces, tiene límites difusos. Algunos amigos necesitan verse casi cada día para sentirse bien, y otros pueden ir tirando viéndose una vez al año.


Justamente por eso, a veces se dan situaciones de ambigüedad o en las que un ligero conflicto se enquista y se traduce en la negativa a hablar para solucionarlo. Esto es lo que pasa cuando un amigo ignora a otro, o cuando ambos se ignoran esenciales. Ante este tipo de experiencias, es difícil saber qué hacer y cómo reconducir la situación, o incluso saber si merece la pena invertir esfuerzos para recounducida

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Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite right.
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If your friend is close to you there's nothing wrong if you reaching out to your friend. You can never tell what happened to him/her. At least you would know the reason behind not communicating with you. 
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Very true and adequate people should start opening there eyes and seeing things this way.
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You choose what's best for you and you mind your business,if your friendship was really that strong then they will eventually come back it's all just a matter of karma sometimes you gotta do them like they do you.
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I will try to reach out to her or him about why he or she does not speak to me. I need to know the reason behind it. If he or she refused to do so, I will let him or her be.
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If my friend doesn't speak to me anymore or chat with me well I will try to know the reason if am at fault I will definitely apologize and try to talk with them but if the person does not want then I have no choice but to leave leave him or her.
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The only reason why a friend whom was very close to you would cut you off is because you meant have offended them and i would you ask and apologise
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Never force any friendship or relationship , if they don't talk leave them it's their own problem.never doubt your worth just move on .
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It can be difficult when a friend stops speaking to you for no apparent reason. The best thing to do is to reach out to your friend and attempt to start a conversation. You can let them know that you care about them and would like to talk. If they are still not willing to engage in conversation, it may be best to respect their wishes and give them some space.
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She did hurt my feelings at school and I gave her the silent treatment vbut finally I told her than the truth that she hurt my feelings. But now it seems she is doing the same thing, we have closed school so we can't see each other face to face. 
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Well if me and my friend love the same person I will just give them their way because if the person really belongs to me he would come by himself and not me forcing myself to him
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Have a chat with her and ask the reason for the sudden change, if you have tried severally and she doesn't have an answer for you and is still cold towards you, I suggest you write a text of apology (stating, incase you have done anything she doesn't like) and keep some distance from her
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