Do you keep loving the person hurt you?
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a lot of people hate from jumping from one relationship to the other. They hence opt to stick around hoping they'll change. Also some people fear that when they move on,they might find other lovers who are even worse than their current. Finally, others just stick around because they've spent too much time together and they fear that they might not find someone else soon.
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Its all about memories. Memories serve a better part of every relationship. You find that someone is almost giving up on the other party but when she recalls how the person has been good and how much time they've spent together going out on outings, makes them stick to the person.
Also, a lot of people hate from jumping from one relationship to the other. They hence opt to stick around hoping they'll change. Also some people fear that when they move on,they might find other lovers who are even worse than their current. Finally, others just stick around because they've spent too much time together and they fear that they might not find someone else soon.
Also, a lot of people hate from jumping from one relationship to the other. They hence opt to stick around hoping they'll change. Also some people fear that when they move on,they might find other lovers who are even worse than their current. Finally, others just stick around because they've spent too much time together and they fear that they might not find someone else soon.
The heart is a strange organ and the mind can be just as hard to figure out. Once you find the person in your life that you love it is very hard to get them out of your heart, mind, and sole. Even your first love of your life no matter how young you were, still plays a very special role in your life believe it or not. You'll never forget your first love and from time to time you'll think back on him and wonder how he is doing or where he is right now. You'll never forget your first true love in your life and how you wished that it would last forever.
Even if you were married young, had a child, and things ended badly, you'll never forget this person in your life. One person might go away and you'll never see them again. This is unfortunate for a young child, but things do happen. Then all of a sudden 37 years later they appear out of nowhere and pretend to be your friend again just to find out how their son or daughter was. No matter how bad the marriage ended the feeling is still hidden deep down in your memories and you want to believe deep down in your heart this person is really serious and just wants to keep in touch and be friends. Then again they do something to hurt you and the feeling swell up again and you swear that it will never happen again. But you know it will. There is just something about it that feeling and memories can't be erased ever.
Once a person touches your life it is very difficult to get them out of your mind and the feeling keeps popping up again and again. You can try and forget, but one nice when you can't sleep, see a movie, or something happens the memories have a way of returning to make you dwell on them once again.
Even if you were married young, had a child, and things ended badly, you'll never forget this person in your life. One person might go away and you'll never see them again. This is unfortunate for a young child, but things do happen. Then all of a sudden 37 years later they appear out of nowhere and pretend to be your friend again just to find out how their son or daughter was. No matter how bad the marriage ended the feeling is still hidden deep down in your memories and you want to believe deep down in your heart this person is really serious and just wants to keep in touch and be friends. Then again they do something to hurt you and the feeling swell up again and you swear that it will never happen again. But you know it will. There is just something about it that feeling and memories can't be erased ever.
Once a person touches your life it is very difficult to get them out of your mind and the feeling keeps popping up again and again. You can try and forget, but one nice when you can't sleep, see a movie, or something happens the memories have a way of returning to make you dwell on them once again.
I can speak from experience I've been hurt time and time again by my partner of 7 years but I forgive but never forget because I keep choosing to see the good qualities in him. In a way it's also fear, the fear of throwing 7 years away and the fear of loving someone new and starting all over again if that makes sense.
I think it rests upon the comfort and familiarity that both of you shared. Even if the number of days that hurt exceeded the number of days that don't, which eventually led you to ending your relationship, when you start to recall how much that person knows you, how much emotion you have poured into that love, you might wonder, can we give it another shot?
Love for me is unconditional. Whether someone hurts me or not my love for that person is totally unaffected by the hurt. I guess we all have flaws, it won't be surprising to me for my lover to exhibit hers towards. All I have to do in such situation is to remember that nobody is perfect, and I would strive within me to tolerate her and let the love I have for her overshadow the hurt. And we both can move on from the hurt by forgiving her regardless of her mistakes of hurting me.
Why am I still in love with the same person who has hurt me the most?
My heart knows greater than my mind. I am always trying to get the two of them together for they can contribute a surprisingly uncanny objective balance. Like the Yin Yang circles our energy thru these two dominant forces in us humans
The hurt is not meant for one or the other. It occurs between two human souls not what the mind and the heart have been forced to separate.
Long ago I discovered the hurt and pain I felt being casted upon me , or what another felt as hurt coming from me; is neither. Reflection is a deeper divinity a given in every soul's essence. How to get inside of that deep well in each of us, and difficult due to the physical density of this planetary's dominant energy force within matter; stifles , basically has snuffed out the energy each soul has to lead each humans direction. The spirit is doing it's best under the condtitions our material world has grown beyond any real spiritual existence to survive.
Back to the question. The hurt we feel is within us as well as them. The projection of another's intention calling their behavior abusive hurtful or deliberate is a fine line between a door in the two or more souls being stopped in this moment and most are quick to judge and lay blame. Many times our own behavior no matter how kind or wonderful we believe we are being also is found some other energies alike when the opposing energy is bounce back instead of reciprocating the same set forth.
My point is to step outside of your own image of yourself. Replay the scenario where hurt or pain was perceived as given or received. Then be the other person looking at you . Take all this in as a new angle , deeper insight into not only ourselves yet under great fear or pain is a cry for help. The different perspective of what is outside of ourself view, meaning remove yourself from the equation and look into their heart passed all their cruelty or seemingly meaningful hurt and you just might see another with a heart and mind imbalance as the many many on this planet.
My heart knows greater than my mind. I am always trying to get the two of them together for they can contribute a surprisingly uncanny objective balance. Like the Yin Yang circles our energy thru these two dominant forces in us humans
The hurt is not meant for one or the other. It occurs between two human souls not what the mind and the heart have been forced to separate.
Long ago I discovered the hurt and pain I felt being casted upon me , or what another felt as hurt coming from me; is neither. Reflection is a deeper divinity a given in every soul's essence. How to get inside of that deep well in each of us, and difficult due to the physical density of this planetary's dominant energy force within matter; stifles , basically has snuffed out the energy each soul has to lead each humans direction. The spirit is doing it's best under the condtitions our material world has grown beyond any real spiritual existence to survive.
Back to the question. The hurt we feel is within us as well as them. The projection of another's intention calling their behavior abusive hurtful or deliberate is a fine line between a door in the two or more souls being stopped in this moment and most are quick to judge and lay blame. Many times our own behavior no matter how kind or wonderful we believe we are being also is found some other energies alike when the opposing energy is bounce back instead of reciprocating the same set forth.
My point is to step outside of your own image of yourself. Replay the scenario where hurt or pain was perceived as given or received. Then be the other person looking at you . Take all this in as a new angle , deeper insight into not only ourselves yet under great fear or pain is a cry for help. The different perspective of what is outside of ourself view, meaning remove yourself from the equation and look into their heart passed all their cruelty or seemingly meaningful hurt and you just might see another with a heart and mind imbalance as the many many on this planet.
You will only keep loving the person who hurt you if you are always blind to all the bad things the person is doing to you. There are times that it reaches the point that you don't know yourself because of too much love. Others say that if you use your heart over your mind probably this will happen. When these things happen we should learn to ourselves too before anything else so we can see the right way the path where our life must go. We should not only focus on one person as if he/she is our life.
To be honest, I don't know hahaha. Just kidding. What I do is just follow my heart because I know to myself that he is the person I can't live without. Also, I can see that he is changing for the better over time. Love is a compromise, patience, and understanding. Keep loving the same person as long as you can see he/she is trying his/her best for your relationship. Also, keep in mind to let go and leave if trust, respect, and love are no longer served to the table. Happy hearts everyone!
No, that would not be healthy. It is important to take the time to heal after being hurt by someone, and to recognize that the person may not have had good intentions or the capacity to truly care for you. If you continue to give love to someone who has hurt you, it could end up leading to more hurt and disappointment.