What do you think?
Depends on which one presents the least noxious environment. Toxic people can be family or friends. Google 'Characteristics of a Toxic Person - Maria Consiglio'. People in our lives are like plants in our garden...some are beneficial and some are weeds....and weeds serve no purpose in our garden nor our lives. Tis said 'In life, you don't get to choose your family, but you get to choose your relationships'. It is up to you to choose wisely, and not base those choices on nostalgia, sentimentality or wishful thinking. If someone (anyone) is a consistently negative influence, he/her/they need to be jettisoned from your life.