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Someone you know suddenly call you telling you that he/she is coming to visit you at home and you are not prepared to accept visitors what you do?

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It depends on the relationship I have with the person. My best friend can come anytime and I won't mind but if it's someone I am not too comfortable with, I find a way to let the person know I won't be available
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yes and it is also depending if we have other program and we are forced to cancel it because of this sudden visit, also the mood to accept sudden visitors.
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If it was close friends or relatives, I will accept them. If it was completely stranger means distant relatives I may say I am out of station. I like to receive guest and give them food.
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For relatives and close friends it will be for somehow normal , but for strangers things will be different, because we should be prepared to receive them .
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I tell them I am not home. Wrong response but most times I prefer to be alone, yes they can visit but tell me 4 days in advance so I fix my mindset
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Yes they should call before two days specially if they are strangers or not that close friends, but sometimes people insist and you will find them suddenly  knocking on your door .:D

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It depends on who the person is and how we relate

If I'm not too comfortable around you, I'll tell that I'm not home at the moment and wont be coming back anytime soon
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What ever you feel like unless it's a parent or something with heath or the law. It's your home if you want them great always have something to offer a drink coffee or dessert. If not you don't have to explain.
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for Parents it is already their home but what about someone you know not that much relation and not considered as a friend also, sudden visits without arrangement is annoying.
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I think it is fine if he or she texted a message. Honestly, I do not want someone who will invite himself or herself with my approval to go to the house.
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You just need to accommodate their visit depending with who they are. If it is someone you can't or you are unable to have them just tell them you can't be able to accommodate them for now but maybe later on. But it is just good to be hospitable and nice to accept visitor. You can organize things quickly or if they are arrive you can explain to them you weren't expecting anyone.
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Better tell your visitors from the start the earlier the better that you cannot accept visitors. Explain your side for sure they will understand whatever your reason. They should respect your decision. Tell them that they can visit you sometime later if the schedule permits. Just tell them they are most welcome to come later.
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If someone calls you telling you that they are coming to visit you at home and you are not prepared to accept visitors, it is important to be honest and let them know. You may want to explain that you are not prepared to receive visitors at this time, and offer to set up another time when they can come. Additionally, it is important to be respectful and polite when communicating with them.
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fine if he or she texted a message. Honestly, I do not want someone who will invite himself or herself with my approval to go to the house.
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unable to have them just tell them you can't be able to accommodate them for now but maybe later on. But it is just good to be hospitable and nice to accept visitor. You can organize things quickly or if they are arrive you can explain to them you weren't expecting anyone.
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If my girlfriend unexpectedly announced her coming, I would likely prepare for her visit by tidying up the space, making sure I have some of her favorite things on hand, and planning activities we could enjoy together. Communication would also be key to ensure that we are both on the same page regarding her visit.
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