Are you able to change things you like to satisfy people?

Question

for example will you change the way you wear, your laugh, your way of talking anything you like because people around you don't like it.

Comments

It is possible to do, but only a fool would do it. I used to when I was young and stupid. It took years to learn these "people" did nothing to satisfy me. It is always pretty much one-sided, as they consider themselves soooo important that you must cater to their every want and need, just to be worthy of their company. What do they offer? The glorious privilege of their worthless company and faux friendship...for which you must live the life of a poseur.

Answer 1

I am not the kind of person to change my persona for others to accept me. It is not a real friendship for them to be in my life. That is life!

Comments

I don't blame you. You shouldn't if you don't want to. It's your life not theress. I'm the long run its cheaper and less stressful.

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The right thing is to have self confidence and who loves you will accept you what ever you are , if you are right and your personality is nice and you find yourself good then you should not change it to satisfy others.

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@Cardigan They are not real friends if they want us to change according to their liking. It is not cool to be in such a situation. @amal Indeed, we need to be us as real people to them. There is no need to change just to fit in.

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yes you are right our friends should accept us for what we are, if we are always good to them and always doing the right thing and never hurt anyone. if they accept it they are welcome to be friends if no then they can choose other friends that fit their personality.

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Indeed. I must say that I am not a person who sticks to people if they do not like me at all. It is a waste of time being with them.

Answer 2

It out of my control. You can beg try buy them gifts. So!e people just won't budge. Just personality difference. They could be nuts because that's what comes out of their mouth first. 

Answer 3

Yes. Sometimes I do that just to satisfy a friend of mine. For example, I don't want to help that friend because it's not needed but as he's badly needed it, I'm forcing myself to help him.

Comments

I wonder if you feel comfortable when you do this , or you feel annoyed because you force your self to help him, also when someone need help he should not insist , and when you help it should be out of your heart not by force.

Answer 4

Definitely not! Will these uppity idiots change themselves to please me? Don't hold your breath! Such people I call faux friends. Fake friends are worthless parasites...only the truly desperate bow to their demands. I'd rather be a recluse than be surrounded by such deadbeats.

Comments

The best way is to avoid this type of people who don't accept you for what you are? Also no one will change themselves to please you , the right thing is to accept peopke for what they are not for what we want them to be.

Answer 5

To be satisfied other people after major changes in my life. you have to change and adapt yourself to the changes. its not a good news? No one else can do this for you but you yourself. The first step is always the hardest, but with determination and the right mindset, you can conquer almost everything. You may know how things are in the present, but what is hidden in the future may (and will be) completely different. so that my point of view I am not ready to change my life for satisfying other person.

Comments

Yes it is your life and you should live it the way you want with self confidence.

Answer 6

this is posible as they say where there is a will there is a way i do not try to satisfy people i simply try to keep the peace and make a truce

Answer 7

Well yeah if it is actually against God's moral standards.

I would change it too if truly I am wrong.

People say we need to unlearn what we have learnt before in life.

Answer 8

Regarding people, changing things about oneself to please others can be harmful. It's important for individuals to be true to themselves and to prioritize their own needs and wants. Ultimately, it's important to find a balance between being true to oneself and also being considerate of others. It's important to have healthy boundaries and communicate clearly what is comfortable and what is not.

It's also important to remember that people have different preferences and values, and it's not always possible to make everyone happy. It's important to find a balance between being true to oneself and also being considerate of others.

Answer 9

It is important to be true to yourself and to not feel the need to change your likes or preferences in order to satisfy other people. It is important to remember that everyone has different tastes and preferences, and that it is ok to be different. It is also important to remember that it is ok to make changes to yourself if it makes you feel better, but it should be done out of your own free will and not to please other people.

Answer 10

took years to learn these "people" did nothing to satisfy me. It is always pretty much one-sided, as they consider themselves soooo important that you must cater to their every want and need, just to be worthy of their company. What do they offer? The glorious privilege of their worthless company and faux friendship...for which you must live the life of a poseur.

Answer 11

It is always pretty much one-sided, as they consider themselves soooo important that you must cater to their every want and need, just to be worthy of their company. What do they offer? The glorious privilege of their worthless company and faux friendship...for which you must live the life of a poseur.