I've never had a really expensive date well just once. So! etching wasn't kosher. But most ask for coffee or tea. They actually day Tim Horten and they're not impressed? Ibe to ask one that.
In the beginning it is the matter of coffee or tea but the matter is usually to understand each other and get to know about their interests and liking.
Having a coffee or tea at a date is one of the most memorable date if I am in that situation. While sipping that beverages, we may have a chance to talk about life, career, plans and whatever she may ask.
It sounds like you're asking why some people offer to go out for coffee or tea on dates rather than something more expensive. This is likely because it's a low-cost option that allows a couple to get to know each other without breaking the bank. Additionally, it's a casual atmosphere which can help to reduce the pressure of a first date.