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I had a childhood best friend. We were so close that our parents knew it. We have grown up as friends up to now. When we joined campus, he proposed that we date but I refused. I prefer him more as a friend and I love him that way. I have heard of other people who were friends from childhood, dated and married each other. 
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I think that is how they lived their life. The love is powerful that no matter what happens, they are there for each other and they become a couple. 
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I dated my childhood best friend way back in college. I would not regret it even though our story did not end well. Because, had I not tried, my life would have been filled with a series of what-ifs.
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Realistically, I can't see myself dating my childhood best friend, because i always see them as my own sisters. And for me, it will be seen as an unwholesome affair to be dating my childhood best friend.

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Ooohh sure, I have also heard of such stories. For me I tried dating my childhood friend immediately after high school. Surprisingly, the relationship never lasted even three months. We were so much used to each other and even that aspect of respect was never there. We still saw each other just as a friend. After some time we both agreed that each one should go their away because things could never work out for us. Still after breaking up, we were both cheerful and kept of talking to each other, I mean there was no grudge between us.

It will not be easy dating someone you've seen since your childhood and knows almost everything about you. As for those who have succeeded with those kind of relationships, I can say its just luck and they were truly meant for each other.
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Life is not a one fit all situation,people go through things differently and what one people doesn't fancy might be the next person source of happiness and as such it always good to do what makes one happy.

Personally I wouldn't mind marrying my childhood best friend provided she is my kind of person and we are not related in any way,why not I will go ahead and date the person .Unfortunately I never had such an opportunity.

I have never dated my childhood best friend maybe we thought we were better off as friends than partners,I'm married but not to my childhood best friend but I would have loved it if I had married my childhood friend after all there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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No I never did but only because the guy I fancied did not see me that way. We were always friends from little children and I valued his friendship too much to spoil it so I didn't make my true feelings known. He dated other girls and it was sometimes painful for me but then I realised his girlfriends would come and go but he always remained my friend.

Over time I also met boys that I dated and I became less romantically attracted to him. We stayed friends until he eventually moved away and then we lost touch apart from the odd Christmas card. I still wonder what it would have been like if we had dated but it was just a childhood crush. I would love to know what he is doing now and catch up on old times but so many years have passed I probably wouldn't even recognise him.
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I dated only once in my life and I married that guy. We dated only for a couple of months and then got married. many people said to me that I am making a hasty decision, however, it has been five years and I do not regret my decision. I did have crush on boys when I was in school and college, however, I never went too far.
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Hmmmmmmm, On a sincere note what usually exist between opposite sex at childhood stage is Infatuation.

I also experienced dating my childhood friend, it actually worked to an extent but we both knew there was no future in it and at a point every one went his separate ways on very understanding platform.

I also realized that if you are too close as friends, if the relationship works it last longer because  you must have known each others likes and dislikes to a very reasonable extent especially if you both understand the difference between friendship relationship and dating relationships but if the understanding is not there, it will quash.
The most interesting part of such date is for both of you to have lost contact for a longer time and later reconnect again at least you both must have been more exposed to different people
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I am more of a moving or migrating person, my childhood best friend are more static or accustomed to a particular community, so after I adapt to my new community, I make new friends and life goes on, so the answer will be no, but they remain friends at heart.
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While some teens will start dating earlier than others, romantic interests are normal and healthy during adolescence. Some kids are more overt or vocal about their interest in dating but most are paying attention and intrigued by the prospect of a romantic life, even if they keep it to themselves.
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I have a best friend in my university days. We always have a date together. Even she is dating with her suitors, I am always there with her. At some point, I thought she will be my girlfriend in real life. But then, it keeps me thinking that it is better to be just her best friend. 

Through the years, we lost in contact since she is living in New Jersey now. Perhaps she had changed and the same thing with me. In time, we may catch up on the loss of years for not being together. That's how best friends do. Catching or patching up about life and things that had changed.
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Yes. We where soooo close. Spent a lot of time together. We eventually dated. It was fun and nice for a while then everything just went south. We where just not comparable. But one thing for sure, he taught me to always be free and never change myself for anyone.
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I have also heard that too, but my male which I consider my closest friend because he knows almost everything about me but I don't think I won't to marry him I prefer us as friends and I take him as a senior brother.
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Yes we usually do when we were younger. We also used to like each other but I refused because a closed friend of mine likes her as well. That was so long ago but she's still my friend until now.
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No i have not dated, not that if i had the opportunity i would, because growing up i always have this inner crush on this girl and it was very hard to tell her.
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No, I haven't. I think it's important to be more open with who you are and what you want. It's hard when you're not used to being in that relationship with someone. But I think it's important to be happy and not focus on the person or relationship that we don't want to be together.
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the relationship never lasted even three months. We were so much used to each other and even that aspect of respect was never there. We still saw each other just as a friend. After some time we both agreed that each one should go their away because things could never work out for us. Still after breaking up, we were both cheerful and kept of talking to each other, I mean there was no grudge between us.

It will not be easy dating someone you've seen since your childhood and knows almost everything about you. As for those who have succeeded with those kind of relationships, I
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We were so much used to each other and even that aspect of respect was never there. We still saw each other just as a friend. After some time we both agreed that each one should go their away because things could never work out for us. Still after breaking up, we were both cheerful and kept of talking to each other, I mean there was no grudge between us.
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Well personally I have a best friend who is the opposite sex and he is always telling me he wants to get married to me but even i also prefer him as friends and not my husband
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Dating a childhood best friend can be a wonderful and rewarding experience, as it often comes with a strong foundation of trust and shared history. If you're considering dating your childhood best friend, here are some steps to consider:

1. **Reflect on Your Feelings:** Before taking any action, take time to reflect on your feelings and motivations. Consider whether your feelings for your childhood friend go beyond friendship and if you're both interested in pursuing a romantic relationship.

2. **Communication is Key:** Open and honest communication is crucial. Talk to your friend about your feelings and ask how they feel. Ensure that you're both on the same page regarding your intentions.

3. **Respect Their Feelings:** Be prepared for the possibility that your friend may not share the same romantic interest. It's important to respect their feelings and decisions, whatever they may be.

4. **Take Things Slow:** If both of you are interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, take things slowly. Start by going on casual dates to get to know each other in a different context.

5. **Maintain Open Communication:** As your relationship progresses, continue to communicate openly about your expectations, desires, and any concerns that may arise.

6. **Preserve the Friendship:** Remember that if the romantic relationship doesn't work out, you should aim to preserve the friendship. Discuss this possibility and ensure that both of you are committed to maintaining a positive and supportive friendship.

7. **Get to Know Each Other Anew:** While you have a strong history together, it's essential to get to know each other as romantic partners and not just childhood friends.

8. **Seek Support:** Seek advice or support from trusted friends or a counselor if you encounter challenges in navigating the transition from friendship to romance.

9. **Enjoy the Journey:** Embrace the journey of discovering a new dimension to your relationship. Building a romantic relationship with a childhood friend can be a beautiful and unique experience.

Remember that not all childhood friendships are meant to evolve into romantic relationships, and it's essential to respect each other's choices and feelings throughout the process. Regardless of the outcome, the bond you share as childhood friends is valuable and can continue to thrive in different forms.
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I dated my childhood friend, we knew each other and our families knew each other but we later figured out we were good as friends but as romantic friends so we decided to end it but we are still good friends and we continue to communicate.we have no problem.
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