As often when asked this type of question or anyone having thoughts about it . It is said that it doesn't matter how others perceive us like is it possible so i wanted to ask this question
Not a whit. I learned decades ago that no one cared what I thought or felt or needed...not long thereafter I realized this was not a one-way street. Since they did not care about me, I had zero obligation to cater to them. Best to take care of yourself, and let others try to take care of themselves....it's a lot easier, a lot less stressful, and you will end up with a better deal in the end. Trying to please others is a full-time volunteer job with few perks.
No, I do not need to feel and be conscious of others' notions about me. I am doing who I am really in front of people. As long as I am not hurting others, then there is nothing to worry about them.
well yes to a certain point but i dont really take to much on board if they dont like me for who i am i think that is their loss and u cant please everybody
No I don't care because I know myself very well , am living normal doing the right thing, not hurting people and believe in god . I treat people good and they treat me good too . I have self confidence so I don't care if someone don't like me , I will not stress myself in order to shape myself to satisfy people.
I always improve myself but not for people but for me.
Whatever people see in me is the real me with no pretensions. It doesn't matter what they say as long as I know in myself that I'm not stepping into others' feet. That I'm a down-to-earth person I don't pretend just to look good in others' eyes. I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me. People sometimes don't understand that I don't get too close to anyone. I just want to have a few real friends that I can trust and also accept me for who I really am.
It depends on the situation. In my corporate job, I have subordinates and teammates. I do care about what they think because as a leader, I need to be a good example, at least in terms of work ethics. In my personal life, I don't care what people think about me, especially who do not know me and my story.
To be honest I care and it makes me feel I have to work on my self and other times I feel no one knows me better than I know my self, so their opinion about does not really matter.
Am this kind of person that is very shy i don't know why but i always try to be on the good side of everybody though i had been told that it is not good to please others
I don't care what other people think about me, that is their own problems.i live my best trying to impress no one rather working towards my targets and goals .
I don't pretend just to look good in others' eyes. I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me
I don't make friends easily with many people right away just to have many friends but not real also to me. People sometimes don't understand that I don't get too close to anyone. I just want to have a few real friends that I can trust and also accept me for who I really am.
Since they did not care about me, I had zero obligation to cater to them. Best to take care of yourself, and let others try to take care of themselves....it's a lot easier, a lot less stressful, and you will end up with a better deal in the end. Trying to please others is a full-time volunteer job with few perks.