Question

If you got into an argument with your bestfriend over your lover when they aren't around, would you stand up for your lover? 

Answer 1

I am not going to take any sides.  I will take time to know what really the cause of the argument and let's see what would be the next course of action after doing this.

Answer 2

I would actually be neutral. They both have a special place in my heart and of there is na argument over any one of them it's best I take the neutral stand, find what could be the problem and try by all means to resolve it.

Answer 3

Well I won't blame anyone and I won't side with anyone I will only make my judgement just and fair, but when it comes to choosing between them that particular situation is very tough and needs real thinking.

Answer 4

I don't think i would side with anybody in this type of argument, i would love to keep it simple and short so as not to hurting one person and pleasing the other.

Answer 5

If that happened to me, I won't stand in nobody's side, both of them are important persons in my life and I don't want to hurt somebody. No matter how deep the argument is, I'll make sure that both of them may understand each other 

Answer 6

Yes I would stand up for my lover only if my lover is right and my best friend is wrong .

I will stand up for my best friend if he or she is right, and my lover is wrong.

Answer 7

It would depend on the situation and the nature of the argument. If I felt that my best friend was attacking my partner unfairly, then I would stand up for my partner and defend them. However, if the argument was based on valid concerns, then I would take the time to listen to my friend's concerns and try to reach a resolution that was fair to both of us.

Answer 8

They both have a special place in my heart and of there is na argument over any one of them it's best I take the neutral stand, find what could be the problem and try by all means to resolve it.

Answer 9

I will not support or attack, rather I will maintain my cool, hear what they all have to say, and conduct my investigation later to find out the truth. No matter what you feel about your lover, it is a bad practice to throw them under the bus; do nothing if you cannot defend them.

Answer 10

I would first listen to both sides, if my friend is wrong then I would tell her, am like you know last time we argued and i feel like you are wrong on this issue. If my lover is the problem then I would definitely tell him , I think you need to change. It's better to also hear from the two sides before reacting.