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Sometimes whenever I'm around her, I just have this feeling, it is appropriate

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To avoid buying a lemon, a test drive is required prior to purchase of a car. In the case of marriage, I'd say living together for a year is a prior requirement. Everyone hides behind masks. One mask is the one she thinks she is. Second mask is the one she wants others to think she is. Third mask is the one she really is. Within a year of living together, you will at least get a peek behind all three, and can make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to pursue marriage.
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Sex is a sacred thing that should not be violated by anyone in having intimate relationships. It is best to preserve oneself until the wedding ceremony.
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After the marriage for those whose marriage permission is granted by family members of both the sides. Before the marriage for those whose family members have not granted their permission.
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Sometimes it depends with families opinions and background of both man and woman.
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Before. Before marriage you should have already accepted, loved and respect everything about your partner. Sex is not a relationship but sex can ruin a relationship.
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Sex after marriage is better it helps cultivate love and affection in marriage. It's a passion that drives, and helps you lead a happy married life to love and care without even saying a word.
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Having sex before marriage seem inappropraite most religious speak against it, it is meant to be after marriage, during the honeymoon period.
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It's not proper to have sex before marriage as long as you love your partner you should be able to wait till the right time, though urges will come it always normal to feel that way but we have to control it becaus we will definitely get tired of sex sometime when we are married so what is the rush relax.
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Sex takes a relationship to a whole other level. So it is a kind of test for the strength of your love. And if this test is passed successfully, you can not doubt your partner. if the test is not passed, after the wedding the breakup will be much more difficult.
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From a woman's perspective and my own opinion (based on my character, upbringing, culture, and beliefs), if we are about to get married and I know that you will not leave me for some other girl, having sex before marriage is okay. Because, why not? 

As long as we are doing protective sex and I will not get pregnant unexpectedly, sex before marriage is fine. 
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Well the purpose of sex is actualized in marriage so you have to do it after marriage.

Anything beyond that, is immorality and shunning it helps our lives.
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Well as a christian who doest want to offend God,it is not advisable to have sex before marriage,some people call it premarital testing but the bible totally condems that.
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I don't think whether there is any religion that supports fornication.Anyone who is ready to get marriage should wait he/she ties the knot.
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It is a personal decision as to when to have sex with someone. Some people choose to wait until marriage, while others may choose to have sex before marriage. If you are feeling a strong connection with someone, it is important to talk to them about your feelings and decide what is right for both of you.
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as long as you love your partner you should be able to wait till the right time, though urges will come it always normal to feel that way but we have to control it becaus we will definitely get tired of sex sometime when we are married so what is the rush relax.
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One mask is the one she thinks she is. Second mask is the one she wants others to think she is. Third mask is the one she really is. Within a year of living together, you will at least get a peek behind all three, and can make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to pursue marriage.
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Well personally I think it's very wrong to have sex before marriage and sex is not a sign of love so why rushing into it when you can have freedom to do that without any side talks after you are legally know as life partners
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The question of when to have sex, whether it's before or after marriage, is a highly personal and subjective matter. There is no universal "best" choice, as it depends on individual values, beliefs, and circumstances. Here are some factors to consider:

1. Personal Values: Some people have strong religious or moral beliefs that encourage waiting until marriage for sexual intimacy, while others believe in exploring physical intimacy before committing to marriage.

2. Emotional Connection: Emotional intimacy is an important aspect of a sexual relationship. Some couples feel that waiting until after marriage can deepen the emotional bond.

3. Compatibility: Exploring sexual compatibility before marriage may help identify any issues that need to be addressed. Some couples see this as an advantage of having sex before marriage.

4. Communication: Open and honest communication between partners is essential, regardless of when you choose to have sex. Discuss your expectations and boundaries to ensure a healthy and consensual sexual relationship.

It's important to respect your own values and the values of your partner when making decisions about when to have sex. What's most important is that both partners are comfortable, consenting, and on the same page regarding the timing of sexual intimacy. There is no one-size-fits-all answer, and individuals and couples should make this choice based on their own feelings and beliefs.
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I personally believe in sex after marriage but I think you should try talking to your girlfriend if she wants to have sex because marriage so that you know her opinion before you mess up things. I believe she will be open and tell you the truth.
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