From what you have mentioned, it seemed to me that there is indeed something wrong with urbanization.
I personally believe that urbanization is not bad. It is the reaction of the people to urbanization that is not good. We should realize that with furthering urbanization, responsibility also increases. Unfortunately, people only want progress but do not really cope with it. We continuously flatten the mountains, turn ricefields into roads, build infrastructures, purchase more cars, but we forget to be accountable for all the unpleasant things urbanization comes with - pollution, heavy traffic, environmental problems. Urbanization provides work opportunities to a lot of people but at the same time robs our farmers, our fishermen, those ones who do the "dirty" (sorry i can't really think of a better word for this, this is not really what i mean) work.