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We go on chasing our dreams that is why they are saying we are shaping our dreams. On the coincidence, there is always the right timing, not a coincidence. Some things are meant to happen.
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I am of the school of thought that things don't just happen but for a reason. From experience I have learnt that regardless of our desire to go for our dreams if it's not the destined time for it to come to fruition nothing will happen. Let take for example former president of US in person of Abraham Lincoln.
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I can say some of us are very lucky but for some aren't. For others, luck will just come and knock on the door, while for others, they have to run and work hard for it.
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I feel there are force or vibes that shape our destiny. Sometimes a stroke of luck shapes our destiny. It seems random chance some are more lucky some are more unlucky
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Destiny is in the hands of our maker, what do we know about tomorrow, did we even know that we will wake up today? of course not, God alone knows what lies ahead of us. Whatever we do, there is no assurance that it will pan through if it is not God's will for our lives.

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Newton's third law states that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. This suggests that the things we do, big or small, determines our future. Nothing in this world is a coincidence. Think of our lives as a water in a pond and you are in the middle of that pond. Even the tiniest movement creates a ripple in it. The bigger the movement you do, the bigger the ripple it creates.
For example, you have an exam. You study for the exam, you pass. Then you finish college. You apply for a job, you get the job. You excel in your job, and now you're promoted to CEO.
We make the destiny that we want. Set your goal and work towards it.
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I love the scientific reference.
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Nice I like that answer - we are what we make of this life - nothing will come of nothing.
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That's a pretty good elaboration tho. I was in search of an answer like that.
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Every day right through our lives we make different types of choices, and every choice we make will create our destiny. Good choices will create a happy and meaningful life, while bad choices will lead us into a life full of sorrow, suffering and failure, unless we are ready to learn from mistakes and failures and then not repeat them.

If we want to live a happy life, we must make every effort hard so that the choices we make are in accordance with the mission we have set for ourselves. Suitability between choice and mission will determine the quality of our life. It is true that every one of us is born in the midst of our respective families.
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So do you think we should work on having a good capacity for making decisions? The ones that will embellish our destiny and determine it?
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Yes we shape our destiny through our daily lifestyles. For example a man is drinks alcohol daily without food is shaping his destiny for kindey failure or death. The reason they say our destiny is in our hands of the ball is in our Court. We have the freewill to make decisions and take action but the consequences of those decisions and actions determine our destiny.
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I believe their is a such a path as the one path for us that we are meant to be on, that has been predestined for us before we were born. Astology confirms this  - also the intuitive feeling I get when Im at the right place at the right time. Its like a homecoming sometimes. Like I have been psychologically away and have returned to my rightful place. The opposite occurs too when Im in the wrong place. Often mishaps happen and the sense gnaws at you until you take action. Providence's way of guiding you along the right and predestined track. 
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To some extent we can shape our destiny. But not all the time we have control over our own actions. At the end, all matters on luck, destiny and our efforts. More efforts we put into things, we tend to do a lot better with our life. It may not be easy but we just have to keep on working harder. 
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Life can have some coincidences but that doesn't mean that we depend on coincidence. We have to fight hard and work smart in order to make a good life. 
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In my view, we are always the captains of our lives. We are the ones who are in-charge in our lives. At some point, we create our own destiny.
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We can choose what type of life we want to live or make and try to make our dreams true, but what I believe is that what is written for us to be it will be.

On the other side we can put an efforts to make our life , business better, but also some bad choices will destroy our life . For example ,if we do wrong things and know that it is wrong like drugs, alcohol and other things this is our choice to shape bad life it is far away from coincidences.
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The answer to this question depends on how one defines destiny and coincidence. Some people believe that our destiny is predetermined and we have no control over it. Others feel that our destiny is in our hands, and we can shape it through our choices and actions. Similarly, some people believe that coincidences are meaningful and that our lives are interconnected, while others view them as random events with no greater purpose. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide what they believe in this regard.
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There are some things that we can conclude with a high degree of certainty. Some things that we can conclude include the fact that we are unique individuals, that we have the ability to create our own destiny, and that there is much to come and to explore.
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The debate of whether we shape our own destiny or everything is just a series of coincidences is ongoing. It's likely a combination of both.
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what do we know about tomorrow, did we even know that we will wake up today? of course not, God alone knows what lies ahead of us. Whatever we do, there is no assurance that it will pan through if it is not God's will for our lives.
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The bigger the movement you do, the bigger the ripple it creates.

For example, you have an exam. You study for the exam, you pass. Then you finish college. You apply for a job, you get the job. You excel in your job, and now you're promoted to CEO.

We make the destiny that we want. Set your goal and work towards it.
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