What all a kid expect from both the parents?

Question

Did a kid will be happy on having a mother only on her childhood days?

How will she face the questions on her parents from people,teacher or friends? 

Having a father and living alone with a mother makes a kid happy? For the selfishness of the father?

Will she be sad on seeing friend parents?

Will she gets the love and care that get from a father?

Will this selfish father makes the child sad?

Comments

She will definitely feel sadness from seeing other parents that are together. Unfortunately sadness is completely unavoidable in situations like these where the father deserts her mom. But it is up to her if it will have a negative affect on her strive to success in life or not.

Answer 1

I am sure that most kids need undivided attention from their biological parents. It means there is no need to practice favoritism. In addition, they need to carry out being responsible adults.

Comments

Will the responsibility will replace the lost love and care that she could get from father? The care and family bond should be there in child mind. She was denying to grow up in family. 

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Since, who had both the parents in your childhood days, you will not understand the pain of a kid without a father and how society looks her? The difficulty and questions the kid face on her life?

Answer 2

Kids need both father and mother to give them love and safe and comfortable home, but if both the father and mother have problems everyday and keep fighting and shouting in front of the kids they should separate and keep supporting the kids even if they are separated.

for example , they can go to school events and other events for the kids keep contacting them and watching there needs, kids will cope with this better than fighting everyday in front of them.

Comments

Can you point out a family without any problems or fight? Since you are a single and religious person you didn't know about a family, that what I understand from your answers. 

 There will be some problems or issues in any family. If there is no problem then both of them are fake and acting well. If there is love between the couple then there will be fight. There are so many ways that the fight can be avoided or controlled. The person can move from the place, the person who becomes angry soon can practice different angry management methods like taking a deep breath,pressing the smiley balls etc. Can the fight can be done in a room with the absence of the kid. There are many couple they used to avoid fight in the presence of the kids. Then the problem is with the person, who becomes angry soon. 

How can you suggest a solution to separate apart. Have your parents didn't fight infront of you. Will the kid will not seen any fight in her life.

Did you ever thought of kid sadness? You will never understand the feeling unless you experience the same. Think has such a child. What all should questions the kid should face?

You said very easily that to live separately . If this was the reason, then there will be no more couple living with family. 

The security,love,care and the confidence in the kid will be less. Sometimes the kid can have heath and mental issues too.

Answer 3

A child could expect from their parents an indefinite love and care,attention,time financial support for the necessities.All parents are after for the happiness and comfort for their children.

Comments

Not all parents.  The kid parent his behind his happiness and his future. His future is more important for him than his daughter.  He has to live and he has to fulfill his dreams. He needs money from the child after she get jobs. But not ready to look after her from childhood. 

Answer 4

This is a very tough question to answer because kids are suppose to be raised in the love and care of both parents not from parent because there are alot of emotional problems.

Answer 5

What kids need from their children is love support, time and care,both from the father and the mother but this days parents don't have time for their children instead they are interested in making money though it okay to make money but come to think of it how will you feel when you have money but you can't have the love of your children.

Answer 6

Parents think being financially there for their kids is enough but no! for a kid at least when the grow up they will always be wanting emotionally available parents no matter what. so for both the parents its very important to be emotionally available to their kids. It is better to not have a father than to have a abusive father, also as a mother you can do your best in helping child know what the situation is and ofcourse they will be sad that they are not being loved by both parents and it will always be a part of their sadness.

Answer 7

kids need undivided attention from their biological parents. It means there is no need to practice favoritism. In addition, they need to carry out being responsible adults.

Answer 8

There will be some problems or issues in any family. If there is no problem then both of them are fake and acting well. If there is love between the couple then there will be fight. There are so many ways that the fight can be avoided or controlled