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Most like to get married or see others get married and situation is worse in Asian countries where if you are late for marriage, you will be asked over and over again, if why you are not getting married. 
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I don't think so. YOu can find your happiness in lots of things in this life. You can be happy even when you are single. It really depends of what makes you truly happy.

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No, It's not necessary and it's our wish if we like to get married or not and we can see many that are married and not happy and on the other hand, not married and happy. I have also experienced this thing with many that like to ask us and our parents that why your son or daughter is not getting married or what are they planning about their marriage and most of the times it's the annoying Neighbors and close relatives that ask these sort of things and make all of us uncomfortable by asking questions which we don't like to answer. I think these sort of things make many feel depressed and then they even decide to stay inside most of the times and don't attend any public gatherings.
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Although it is possible to be happy without marriage, but we cannot overlook the benefits of marriage as institution. Because the bible said he who finds a wife finds a good thing.


But there are those individuals out there that will  be comfortable and happy without marriage. And this depends on so many factors. Some of which could be as a result of religious beliefs, like the priest, monks and nuns. While others could be as a result of personal reasons, like those who doesn't want to make any form of commitment to anybody.


Despite the fact that some are not married doesn't mean they cannot be happy. Happiness is really not a function of any attachment to anybody but to personal achievement of one's purpose in life.
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Probably not for everyone but the majority of people feel it gives them security and I think if there are children involved then it is nice for them to all have the same surname. I got married for the sake of my children but it didn't work out so I would not do it again. Now I have a partner that I don't live with and that suits me fine as I like my own space.

As you say some people feel pressured into getting married because it is the norm not just in Asian countries but sometimes here in the UK too so they might marry having doubts just so they can be like everyone else.

I am very happy being single now. My marriage was happy for a time but when it broke down it was one of the worst times of my life so my answer is no, you don't need to be married to be happy in life.
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I always tell people happiness is within and has nothing to do with  external things we see or have.Nothing gives one happiness like contentment, appreciating and loving what one has.Marriage never bring the needed satisfaction we crave for,if it was then we wouldn't have depressed married people around and high rare of divorced now.

Good life is encompassing, it doesn't means only marriage, good life can mean a whole lot from having good friends, loads of money to buy all that you need and touring all the places you seek of.

Society just have a way of putting pleasure on people and this is what we should understand because when once you get married you will be pressurized about child birth and the pressure continues.
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It is not just in Asia, even in Africa this is the case. Once you attain a certain age or stage in life, you are expected to be married. Some are forced in an arranged marriage while others give in to the pressure and marry the next person available and in the quest for happiness, it turns out sour.

It isn't always like this with love marriages even though there are different circumstances that make marriages fail. Sometimes pressured and arranged marriages work out fine.

One thing for sure is that marriage is not a guarantee for happiness especially when you get married for the wrong reasons. I've seen a lot of single happy people. It is possible that some find happiness within marriage only. They enjoy the status, keeping a home and raising kids. Others are better off by themselves.
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It depends with the person in question. And marriage should be a happily ever after endeavor but people do misinterpret it. Marriage cannot work for itself but the two of you need to make it work and rekindle it each and every day. It's a tough journand you need help and strength from above. 
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For some Yes. All of us have different perspective and idea on how to live a happy life. For some, they achieve happiness through getting married and its not a bad thing because only you, yourself can identify what's necessary for you to be happy. Just focus on what you think will make you happy and get married if it makes you happy rather than get married just to get to trend or to ease peer pressure.
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Not surely unless you are really enjoying your life and have control on your feelings. So it's not necessary . And don't make it a tension. 
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No. Happiness comes from self love. If you earn good, have mental peace and are self sufficient then happiness comes to you by default. A partner may add up to your happiness. But sometimes, he/she may also be a reason for your sorrow. Hence, the most important thing is recognizing your self worth and being self sufficient. Adopting a hobby, eating your favorite food, reading your favorite novel, going for a vacation, listening to your favorite music can also make you happy. It is not necessarily marriage that will make you happy. 
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No no no it is not necessary to get married for a happy life.  Happiness is not not associated with anything like marriage . Happiness is only associated with your attitude towards a particular thing whatever it would be?

I claims that if you are not interested in something,you can not produce any happiness from it .
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Yes it is important. It is when you introduce your loved one to God and thank Him for giving a worthy partner to you. It is also the legal way to prove your partner that you love her and want to stay with her the rest of your life.
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Marriage is not necessary for a happy life. While marriage can bring happiness, it is not a requirement for a fulfilling and meaningful life. People can be happy and content without marriage. They can find joy in relationships with friends and family, in their work and hobbies, and in their own personal growth. There are many different paths to happiness and fulfillment, and marriage is just one of them.
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Marriage is not necessary for a happy life, as happiness is subjective and can be achieved through various means. Marriage can bring happiness and fulfillment to some people, but it is not a guarantee for everyone. People have different needs and desires, and what works for one person may not work for another.

Some people may find happiness and fulfillment through their career, hobbies, friendships, or other relationships. Others may choose to remain single and enjoy their independence and freedom. Ultimately, the decision to get married or not should be based on personal values, goals, and priorities.

It's important to remember that marriage requires effort, commitment, and compromise from both partners. It's not a cure-all for problems or a guarantee of happiness. A successful marriage requires two people who are willing to work together to build a strong, loving, and supportive relationship.
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There are many reasons why marriage is necessary for a happy life. It is a way to form relationships and build a support system. It is there to ensure that there is someone that is there for you when you are feeling down, when you are starting out in your development process, when you are in pain or when you are looking to create a better life.
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Indeed, married people are happier than unmarried people: across nearly five decades of surveys, data from the GSS shows that 36% of people who have ever been married (including divorced, separated, and widowed people) say they are “very happy” 
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Marriage is not necessary for one to live a happy life but is meant for companionship, support and build a family together as an husband and wife plus kids.
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