A man after getting married and having kid. He is still behaving like a baby , that he want to stay with father and mother. He is saying he will only look after his parents and his needs. He is only thinking for his parents happiness. Not thinking of the kid happiness or been with the kid. He want to live has single ? Did he spoil the wife and kid life and happiness. He is only thinking of himself and his parents? Did not have any consideration of the kids life, future or happiness.
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Ofcourse a father should give importance to their child's life and happiness. If they are prioritising their own happiness over their child's then they should not be a parent. And his parents' happiness is not his responsibility because his parents are adults that can fend for themselves and who decide how to live their life. By leaving the father won't necessarily spoil the wife and child's happiness, it may take some time but both the wife and child can be happy by themselves again.
Yes in a broken family the kids get affected, but if you force a bad parent and husband (like this man clearly is) you will do more harm to the child's life and mental health. Because then the father might become vindictive, mean and possibly even abusive. And if a person does that to their child they're completely at fault but it's better to not have that possibility at all rather than risk it. There are hundreds of thousands of single mothers out there in the world with happy children who are happier without their dad. And if your friends are actually good friends they will not judge you or blame you if the husband leaves. Same thing with your parents. Because of the husband leaves it is not the wife's fault.
Questions like "If you aren't ready to raise a child why did you marry?" don't matter because all that matters is moving forward with your life without the husband in it and living a happy life without ever thinking about him
Questions like "If you aren't ready to raise a child why did you marry?" don't matter because all that matters is moving forward with your life without the husband in it and living a happy life without ever thinking about him
a father should give importance to their child's life and happiness. If they are prioritising their own happiness over their child's then they should not be a parent. And his parents' happiness is not his responsibility because his parents are adults that can fend for themselves and who decide how to live their life
If someone don't want to give importance to their child than why they even had them you shouldn't bought then to this world maybe the person you are talking about is a great son but he want to be treated the way he want to treat his parents then he should realize his responsibility towards his children.