A rare family with no concern of others. Selfish parents and son. How to change such behaviour?
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Changing selfish behavior in a family can be difficult and challenging, but it is possible with the right approach. Here are some tips to help:
1. Set expectations and boundaries. Make sure everyone in the family knows what behavior is acceptable and unacceptable. 2. Talk about the importance of kindness and generosity. Have ongoing conversations about why it’s important to think of others and put their needs before our own. 3. Encourage empathy. Help your family members to think about how their words and actions affect others. 4. Acknowledge and reward good behavior. Make sure you recognize and praise your family when they make an effort to be kind and generous. 5. Address selfish behavior. Don’t ignore selfish behavior; instead, talk to your family about it and why it’s wrong. Offer alternative ways of behaving that are more helpful and beneficial. With patience, consistency, and a lot of love, you can help your family to become less selfish and more considerate of others.
By saying it directly then they blame back that we are also selfish, they never accept their fault or try to correct it. They have some dreams and all have sacrifices for making it TRUE. They didn't consider others difficult on making their dream to come TRUE. They give more importance to money than values, ethics and love. Money rulers them, for that they will do anything even it harm the dignity of a women.
1. No value for any relationship like father, wife,daughter. They will do anything for getting money.
2. No consideration for other dreams, and life. Like someone suggest to take care of a mother which was his duty, he said no.because he is stubborn on his decisions and dreams.
3.The bad words usage and behaviour, they will never understand that the use of such words are not good band should not say to others . to make fun of others, to cheat others by saying lies, to hurt someone feeling infront of others.
They are stubborn on their own dreams and others have to adjust, sacrifice and become unhealthy for full filling their dreams.
1. No value for any relationship like father, wife,daughter. They will do anything for getting money.
2. No consideration for other dreams, and life. Like someone suggest to take care of a mother which was his duty, he said no.because he is stubborn on his decisions and dreams.
3.The bad words usage and behaviour, they will never understand that the use of such words are not good band should not say to others . to make fun of others, to cheat others by saying lies, to hurt someone feeling infront of others.
They are stubborn on their own dreams and others have to adjust, sacrifice and become unhealthy for full filling their dreams.
It is hard to change especially if they know that they are not doing wrong to others. There is something they like wealth that they think can't be shared by anyone. Time will come whatever they are doing to others will come back to them or even worse. You don't have to do anything and that time will happen at the right time.
The best way to end selfish behavior in a family is through clear communication and understanding. Set realistic expectations of each other, foster honest conversations about needs and desires, and encourage selflessness through positive reinforcement. Conflict resolution and mediating can also help family members work together to end selfish behavior.
Dialogue can solve a lot of family issues. Some people may not be aware of their weaknesses, but if you draw their attention to such habits, it could stir up reflection and a possible change in lifestyle.So try dialogue and your tone of communication is important in driving home the message, never be forceful.
Changing the selfish behavior of a family can be challenging, but it is possible with patience and understanding. Start by setting clear boundaries and expectations for everyone in the family. Encourage open communication and practice active listening. Lead by example and show that kindness and consideration are important values in your family. Finally, be patient and consistent in your efforts. It may take time for the family to change their behavior, but with effort and understanding, it is possible.