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Marrying a billionaire that doesn't love or marrying a pauper that has so much love.Which works better?
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Money works for me by all means. Love is good but I'm not going to eat love. Money is something that any living human being can't do without. 

I have this belief that money can even buy love to an extent but love can never buy money. 
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For now, money works for me for my children, it's more important than love to received but, I love my children most.

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I don't think there's anybody that would like to settle with a pauper. You need money, not for extravagance but for even the most basic things. So why not if I can afford the basic things in life. Afterall, change is constant and everyday people strive to make things better. Marrying a pauper doesn't make me a pauper. I could be rich and we can compliment each other.
I would never want to be with a billionaire who doesn't know how to give love. No matter how much money gets me, It cannot nourish my soul and longingness. I want money  too but I also need more love. Marriage should be for better or for worse. I can go out and make money but I can't go out to look for love elsewhere.
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Maybe the two people can work for the money but alot of people too wouldn't mind having someone that can spoil them too.
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It is better to marry someone who appreciates and value you because internal peace and understanding will exist, wit patience money will also come. 
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I think love is more important than money. Loves makes life meaningful and beautiful. With money we can live rich but not happily. 
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I think none of these choices seem acceptable but if I am really to choose, I'd go for the billionaire. Not that I don't value love, it's just that I don't see myself being happy either in marrying a pauper. Even if we both love each other so much, if there will come a time when we have nothing to feed our kids, then I wouldn't think I've made the right decision.

Money is a very huge factor to survive. We need to be able to provide for the basic needs in order to give our family the life we want them to have. However, I don't want someone who doesn't love either but since I believe in the power of love, then perhaps I'd be able to make his heart beat by showing him how genuine my feelings are.
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I believe there's no two ways about it we just need money to survive whether as a slave, free born, pauper or not. We can't just do without money. 
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Yes. Money is most important to lead a happy life. But without love you started to feel very down. 
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My husband and  I started our love with little budget in our pockets. He was somehow generous that time, and still up until now. The reason he gave me is that he never experienced the freedom of eating the food he wants when in work. He works abroad, inside a ship. He is a seaman. Being a seaman, when at work, he is getting a large sum of salary. But money isn't the reason why we became a couple and why we married early.
LOVE works for both of us. If love was not present in our relationship and money only matters, then we could have been separated a long time ago. he may have been receiving a lot of money from work, but when he goes back home, he stops working and receives no salary. And that we spend money he worked hard for months.
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So in essence money is still needed no matter how we want to say otherwise. We need the purchasing power which is money and having it helps us to grow in love I  believe. 
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It is happy to hear your story. Yes love is very important than money. Thanks for your answer. 
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Money is important to life. But love is more essential in our life. Without love, one can't be happy with the money. We usually spend money for our loved ones. Without love, What is the use of money? 
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We cannot deny that money is important to people's lives. Love is not enough to sustain a married life. If the couples keep on fighting because of money, then it can lead to ending the relationship. It is a fact that cannot be brushed off.
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Very true, and we often face such live example around ourselves each day, two people fall in love and during the early stage of love everything is all beautiful and nice, they take a rapid decision and gets married because they think they can't live without one other, but after marriage when responsibility hits hard, and you realize love is not enough things start to get change and sometimes lead to the worst end.
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Love is good and that is what makes us human beings marry and have children whom we can provide for. Money also is a medium of exchange and in the world of today everything needs money hence when one loves, you can work both hard to get money that can sustain your family. 
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It's nice when there is understanding with love, or the result can be worse, who find people who only do love-love but run away from responsibilty. In my opinion, If there is understanding with love it's a bonus point for any relation.
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All work possible to money but love is need over live life. So money is important but love is most important in life. 

Some people are always do that money ..... Money ... Not care to relationship so they are go away for love. 

Have too money but not having love.
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Money and love both are important in life. You can not survive without money but you can survive without love. Although money is great and can buy us all the things that will temporarily makes us happy, but it is absolutely true no amount of money can buy love. The ultimate choice is really up to you. You have to think about what is important to you in life. Love is one of the greatest motivations that a person can have in life. There are people who are not as concerned about love as others, though. Some people are much more concerned with making money and they seem to focus on financial success at the expense of their love lives. Take a moment to examine whether you should be more focused on finding love or making money. It might help you to gather your own thoughts on the matter so that you can better focus your own life goals.
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For me, I will choose to marry a pauper that has love. Eventhough he didn't have a lot of money, we will help each other in reaching our dreams. 
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Trust me this logic does not always work, If a person is determined to do hard work and aware of his responsibility, then this may get worked, but if a person is just lazy and don't want to do anything or work hard, and takes things lightly, it can spoil everything and may lead to a toxic future.
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According to my opinion, love, and money both, you can't choose anyone and live a happy life. You should never leave someone for the lack of money, but the other person should also be determined to work hard for the future which not only includes two i.e, husband and wife but also the children's good education and care. You will find some people who simply don't want to do anything, pr work hard, in this case giving priorities to that person or love is worthless.
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I choose love because money it's not all that we want in life

Life goes on if we found a love without money and money without a love it's nothing i think
We are born to love each other to be in relations money will buy everything except love and feelings 
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For me, love is better than money because with love you will get happiness all your life and you will never feel lonely. Money and other materialistic things do not last forever and they cannot give your life meaning and happiness because they will come to an end. Better to live life with love because if you love someone and care for them they will return that favor back.


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It's one of the main reasons why love stands above everything else in the world. It is the only emotion that has the power to be eternal, whereas money is just temporary happiness. You may buy things, travel anywhere, be powerful but you can never buy love.

Mutual love and respect are correlated to relationships being happier, stronger, and lasting longer. So, a marriage for money without love and respect may be less likely to result in a happy couple or two happy individuals. Good conflict management can be important for a satisfying marriage.
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Neither of them I need both love and money, we can't eat our love when we are hungry. It is better to marry a middle class person who loves you and has enough money to be able to survive it is not a must you be rich. Right know you can't survive without having money almost everything you want or need to do needs you to spend some money. 
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Money is good in some aspects, you can survive daily if you have stable money or income. Love is good in so many ways, like it makes you feel happy and satisfied in all costs. If you can do both then it's better
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Money works for me by all means.

Love won't provide you the things money can provide you with and more over I don't believe in any such thing as true love since human love is keeps on changing. So even if love is not faithful atleast money is.
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It ultimately depends on what you value more. If you value money, then marrying the billionaire is likely the best option. However, if you value love, then marrying the pauper with so much love is likely the better option. Ultimately, it is up to you to decide which is more important.
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Marrying a person that you can trust and can have faith in will work better than marrying a person because the pauper will have less money and be without support.
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. I could be rich and we can compliment each other.

I would never want to be with a billionaire who doesn't know how to give love. No matter how much money gets me, It cannot nourish my soul and longingness. I want money  too but I also need more love. Marriage should be for better or for worse. 
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For me I prefer to marry someone who has money as long as I see what I want and can take care of my self and my children I am satisfied with that
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