Does anyone really find and win their ideal partner?
I don't think so. An ideal partner for me is sort of like a wishful thinking--a man who has all the quality traits that I've been looking for. But as I realized, no one will ever fit anyone's expectations. You may find that someone is attractive or well-mannered but there will always be a trait or two that you will dislike.
However, I don't think this would matter anymore as long as you love each other. After all, true love means having to grow along with your differences, and making every bit of it as the foundation of a lasting relationship.
On the other hand, what I would like to believe is that there is someone destined for us--that somewhere out there we will meet someone who will make us feel that all the waiting is just worth it.