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Does anyone really find and win their ideal partner?

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My ideal partner is just having someone to be with, who will be beside me no matter what the circumstance is. That is a very broad idea. I want a person who can stand my mood swings, my bad attitude, my negativities. I believe I won an ideal partner having a husband who fits in to my personality. He works abroad and have to live far away from us for months but LOVE WINS. With love, faith and hope, our relationship goes on and becomes stronger as time passes by.
Setting the specifics of an ideal partner is not a bad thing. But asking a person to be an ideal man/woman is somehow off. Same thing with becoming his/her ideal person just to be with him, trying to change the whole you to satisfy them. Still, being true to yourself is still the best!
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Yes,one can find an ideal partner, it just to be patient and choose the one that befits one but remember we are imperfect and we should just love our partner that way. 
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Yes. It is happy to know that you have an Ideal partner. But not every one getting the right one in their life. 
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Yes, we have heard and see stories/testimonies of so many people that have succeeded in their quests for true love. It is not a fairy tale kind of make-believe affair as it is in the movies. I strongly believe we all can relate with couple of movies that their story lines were love based like the TITANIC. Oh yes! I can imagine what's going on in your mind right now. That's just it. Love is a powerful force that nobody can restive or can feel its energy, be it man or woman.

Interestingly, this love of a thing is attractive and magnetic. It's very magical in such a mysterious way that one can't tell when it's at work. That's why one won't be surprised when people are finding their life partners every now and then. Once you find the one you love it won't be hard to identify such a person due to the attractive nature of love. Finally, I believe that there is that special person out there that's specially met for you and I.
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There's this guy had struggled to win for quite some time after we were is relationship then broke up. Things were quite hard and I couldn't withstand such a relationship. Just recently, he started calling me asking whether we can continue where we left. In summary, you cannot force someone to love especially if the feeling isn't mutual. If he doesn't to have you at the moment then I don't think anything will change I the future. The funny bit of it is that, you're really trying to win his heart and he's after someone else.

Love isn't something that can be rushed even if you're desperate because you'll end up being hurt in unimaginable way. You can always tell from the start and how he treats you. That will tell you if he's someone who can stick with you or not.
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Believe it or not, this can actually happen in life. It might take years to find your perfect partner and you might make many mistakes along the way. But when you do you know they are actually the one. I have a friend who has married 20 years ago to a wonderful man. For one reason or another, it ended in a divorce. Over the past 15 years, these two people kept in touch and stayed friends. She ended up moving to another state and he ended up staying where he was. Each dated and had relationships, but neither one of them were married again.
A year or so back they started to talk more frequently and one of them was sick. He had cancer and she came to help. In the end, they realized that they had made the biggest mistake of their lived when they divorced. He asked her to marry him again and she agreed. They were married a second time on the exact date they got married on the first time. So you see it might take time to realize this, but all is possible.
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Whoah. This one's a very beautiful story. Thank you for sharing this. It kinda made me change my opinion on this question. Again, thank you.
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Yes I believe they do. You hear of old couples who have been together for years and are still very happy. I don't know if any relationship is perfect but some people do seem to have an unbreakable bond. I personally don't have an ideal relationship but I have been with my partner for 16 years and I'm not unhappy, I think it's all about compromise and making a relationship work over the years. I spoke to a woman who has been with her husband since she was 16 and is now in her 60s. She said there have been many times when she felt like giving it all up but they worked through their problems and have come out even stronger.

I don't know if I would use the word win unless there were many competitors for the same person at the time but I believe that two people can be attracted to each other and also share many common interests which would make for an ideal relationship.
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I don't think so. An ideal partner for me is sort of like a wishful thinking--a man who has all the quality traits that I've been looking for. But as I realized, no one will ever fit anyone's expectations. You may find that someone is attractive or well-mannered but there will always be a trait or two that you will dislike.

However, I don't think this would matter anymore as long as you love each other. After all, true love means having to grow along with your differences, and making every bit of it as the foundation of a lasting relationship.

On the other hand, what I would like to believe is that there is someone destined for us--that somewhere out there we will meet someone who will make us feel that all the waiting is just worth it.

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Relationship is a process,  the best relationship go through different stages of transformation to get to where it is now. So it is willingness to walk and face the challenges that makes a perfect relationship.
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Yes a lot .A new study has found that the chance of finding love on a given day is just 1 in 562 if you leave it entirely to fate. But the good news is that there are several things you can do to improve those odds, including saying yes to after-work drinks, and joining online dating services.
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No one is ideal and we can never get one. We have to work our ways and provide comfort for each other. Understand, respect, love unconditionally and all shall be well. Commit ourselves to God for guidance and strength. 
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Yes, a lot  of  stories tells us that  they are able  to  find their ideal partner.  Some found it in a most unexpected  situations while others  do feel  it in an instant.  Regardless of the situation,  love  moves in mysterious ways. 
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Yes there are some instances like that. You can still have your ideal partner that you wish for. But at the first place, you should be satisfied to the person you love although He/She didn't qualified in your perspective as a partner.
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Considering all the Hollyweird and other high profile divorces (Johnny Depp, Jeff Besos, and so on), I'd say it's as rare as winning the lotto.
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So personally, I don't believe love can survive on lies and betrayal. So it is very important for everyone to get loyal partners that they can live their lives with for the rest of their lives. The ideal partner is the one that will give you joy and happiness, peace and prosperity, love and kindness and God fearing.
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In this world, I do believe that every one of us can find our true love. It does not mean having a partner. This true love can be loving oneself, loving something, and so on.
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Ideal partners should value each other's interests separate from their own and be supportive of each other's goals in life. And be someone who feels comfortable around, honest, loyal, respectful these qualities provide unconditional love. 
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What i know about finding your ideak partner is that some how you will meet the person and develop a strong bond with them, I don't know if you have to find your ideal partner and then win
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It is possible for someone to find and win their ideal partner, but it is not guaranteed. Finding the right person takes a lot of effort, luck, and timing. Additionally, it is important to remember that relationships require work from both parties in order to be successful.
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not everyone. its up to the luck of the anyone. everyone can't find perfect and ideal partner in life. he/she have to compromise in life
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Everyone will have different preferences and preferences. Some people may prefer to win their partner's love and Ornidells; while others may prefer to be with their partner and listen to their thoughts. Some people may find their ideal partner while others may find someone they enjoy spending time with. Ultimately, it is up to the individual to find the person they want to be in love with and be happy with.
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. I believe I won an ideal partner having a husband who fits in to my personality. He works abroad and have to live far away from us for months but LOVE WINS. With love, faith and hope, our relationship goes on and becomes stronger as time passes by.
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