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Yes, when we love it is expected that we got to get hurt. It's part of it, it is true too that the person we love the most is the one who will hurt us more.
I once read a phrase that said "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If not, it never was. author unknown. I have let 3 boyfriends go. The 3 never came back. I am so tired of looking for the "one". Men are either gay or married.
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There is a story of a young man who dall in love with a sicking lady on campus. He made his intentions kknown to her but she declined with the believe tthat no man will love her genuinely wwith her predicament. But the guy insisted, so they decided to give it a try. One day while they were both gisting. The lady had a usual attack and it was not funny. So the guy was advice by her friends to pee on her head. He did and she got back but with much disappointment tthat the guy had to witness the disgusting tthing.
They decided to seek orthodox medicine and the conditions were critical but not detailed to the guy, he was only told he will have to marry sacrifice if he truly love her. He aggreied and took all the sacrifises. Later after then, he lost his mom and his two legs as prices to pay by the orthodox doctor. All he was hoping is to still have the lady as his own. But guess what!
She abandoned him and left for a rich guy who just return from abroad. The guy was sad and lost faith in Gid and love.he started drinking aall sort of alcohol and the lady got married with the rich guy. Her mother was in full support.
One day, the guy felt bad and went back to the native doctor to help him win her back.and the man said the only condition isvti return the sickness back to her. The guy didn't want it but he still want her. Knowing fully that once the sickness is back she will search for him. Within that period the one keg guy found another woman who so much love him.
The native doctor returned the sickness and the abroad guy couldn't cope with his wife. So he decided to divorse her . she started looking for the one leg guy again. But before she could find him. He was already married with a more loving spouse. And did I forget to mention that he already threw away the antidote to cure the Lady in a deep river because the doctor ggave it to him. You can see that, love hurts and conditions might seems tough, but atvtge end; loce still found the guy.
They decided to seek orthodox medicine and the conditions were critical but not detailed to the guy, he was only told he will have to marry sacrifice if he truly love her. He aggreied and took all the sacrifises. Later after then, he lost his mom and his two legs as prices to pay by the orthodox doctor. All he was hoping is to still have the lady as his own. But guess what!
She abandoned him and left for a rich guy who just return from abroad. The guy was sad and lost faith in Gid and love.he started drinking aall sort of alcohol and the lady got married with the rich guy. Her mother was in full support.
One day, the guy felt bad and went back to the native doctor to help him win her back.and the man said the only condition isvti return the sickness back to her. The guy didn't want it but he still want her. Knowing fully that once the sickness is back she will search for him. Within that period the one keg guy found another woman who so much love him.
The native doctor returned the sickness and the abroad guy couldn't cope with his wife. So he decided to divorse her . she started looking for the one leg guy again. But before she could find him. He was already married with a more loving spouse. And did I forget to mention that he already threw away the antidote to cure the Lady in a deep river because the doctor ggave it to him. You can see that, love hurts and conditions might seems tough, but atvtge end; loce still found the guy.
Love is an unconditional affection that exists between two people or more, however love is positive and interesting naturally when it is true and genuine.
The moment you are hurt then love is gradually drifting to be negative and when it continues it leads to hatred.
Love is naturally unconditional but the moment you are getting hurt in it every day, it will definitely be affecting you physically, mentally and emotionally which is very dangerous, in this case it is better you call your partner to settle things with him or her. It is even understandable if both partners are being hurt because such situations can be settled amicably through intervention but if is one sided honestly it has serious psychological implications that requires intervention and if it can work it better to quit so that you can have a focus, definitely there will be pain but over time you get over it instead of getting hurt daily without the end date.
The moment you are hurt then love is gradually drifting to be negative and when it continues it leads to hatred.
Love is naturally unconditional but the moment you are getting hurt in it every day, it will definitely be affecting you physically, mentally and emotionally which is very dangerous, in this case it is better you call your partner to settle things with him or her. It is even understandable if both partners are being hurt because such situations can be settled amicably through intervention but if is one sided honestly it has serious psychological implications that requires intervention and if it can work it better to quit so that you can have a focus, definitely there will be pain but over time you get over it instead of getting hurt daily without the end date.
Now, the question is why would the love which you are into be causing you so much hurt? Are you sure that you are in love with the right person? Are you sure your lover doesn't value your relationship with him or her? There are so many questions that you need to ask yourself and once you have come up with reasonable answers to all of them, then I'm very certain that you would be able to discern whether that love affair or relationship is worth your still being in it or not, then you can easily make your decision.
It's true that relationships always have its ups and downs. It's not a always a joyous ride because there are bound to be frictions somewhere along the way but it wouldn't be 90% unsteady association and 10% loving moment. When you both don't coexist well, it's better to call off the relationship.
It's true that relationships always have its ups and downs. It's not a always a joyous ride because there are bound to be frictions somewhere along the way but it wouldn't be 90% unsteady association and 10% loving moment. When you both don't coexist well, it's better to call off the relationship.
Each loving experience should teach you one lesson or the other. This is a process that we have all gone through and it's something that I don't feel that it is cool for us to keep pushing on. I have lived my life at that stage where I was hurt because of love and that made me to start understanding things in life.
I am always of the opinion that when we love, we should do it with our head and not with the heart. When you love with your head (logic), you will always see signs that you are going to be hurt and as such, you take the necessary precautions to ensure that you stay clear. I believe also that anyone that is falling in love should understand that there is need for them to take the good and the bad that comes with it. In most cases, love is never bed of roses.
I am always of the opinion that when we love, we should do it with our head and not with the heart. When you love with your head (logic), you will always see signs that you are going to be hurt and as such, you take the necessary precautions to ensure that you stay clear. I believe also that anyone that is falling in love should understand that there is need for them to take the good and the bad that comes with it. In most cases, love is never bed of roses.
Oh where to begin? I do believe you should never give up on love. As Much as it may hurt at times, I do believe its worth believing in. I for one would never dream of giving up on finding love. It may seem impossible due to some circumstances, but still its gonna be the beat rewarding feeling when you finally get it right. And like you said, the person who you love the most is the one that probably hurts you the most. It's also a fact that the more you love the more likely you are to get hurt. Buy I don't think that should be a reason for us to give up on love. And believe me when I say, just when you are about to give up, that's mostly when you are almost to the finishing line. So don't you ever give up on love no matter how much it hurts today. I know I ain't.
This depends on where you really are in love at the moment. We normally say Love is a tricky affair. At times we feel like we really know what love is about, but the truth is, we don't know half of what it entails, we are always surprising ourselves with stuff that comes up every so often, and we do not know how to deal with it. To answer your question, whether or not we trust love, there will always be a disappointment, where one party will be rejoicing while the other party hurts, that's just the truth about love. We can never be sure what to expect. I can tell you, continue to trust love and it will surely show you the mistakes you made and how to correct them in the long run. be open minded, and learn to deal with the disappointments. You cannot stop trusting because your hurting, that's part of loving, you hurt from one person and learn to love another and that keeps going on and on until you are mature enough to understand and accept that it is part of life.
Never stop loving whatever happens. Hurting is only one part in life to help us how to grow and be a better person in the future. Giving love to others is the best thing that ever happens to each one of us. Being hurt is only a process or challenges to us for us to become more stronger and matured to our next relationship.
Love harms in light of our assumptions. Genuine romance ought to be unqualified. Dismissal or treachery in adoration harms a ton and you nearly lost confidence in adoration. However, recall that affection isn't simply an inclination. Love is our actual presence. Might you at any point envision an existence without affection? Try not to contribute your feelings such a lot of that you get scarred forever. And yet, don't keep yourself away from adoring. I put stock in the general rule that good energy attracts good. Anything that you provide for the universe, returns manyfold. Assuming you give love, love will stream back in your life in some structure or the other. Try not to stall out with an individual. Let him/her go. Take the path of least resistance. The person who is bound for you will come in your life eventually. Be adoring and in appreciation for all that you are honored with.
It is ultimately up to you to decide if you want to continue to trust love and love even if it is causing you pain. However, it is important to consider if the love you are experiencing is healthy and if it is worth continuing to invest in. If the love you are experiencing is causing you harm or causing you to compromise your own well-being, it may be necessary to reassess the relationship and consider seeking help or ending the relationship. It is also important to remember that love can bring both joy and pain, and it is okay to feel a range of emotions. However, if the pain outweighs the joy, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.
Yes, you should still trust in love and continue to love even if it is the reason why you are hurting. It can be difficult to love somebody who has hurt you, but harboring feelings of resentment and anger will only lead to further hurt. Instead, try to forgive and move on, and focus on trusting in love and the positive feelings that come with it.