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What would you do if your friend is loving the same person you are into?

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Just show your love to her, and let your friend do it as well. Always be friend with him and compete without fights. Let the girl to choose who she loves. If she loves of you two, let she thinks who will give a better future if she married.

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Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite rightBy reading this I have managed to add up on my knowledge about this topic this is very useful information about the topicThat is quite a positive mindset and perspective it will keep you optimistic no matter the situation.
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It is an abnormal situation if this occurs it means that this friendship will break. I personally would just leave the person for my friend cause I would not like to be tied in such an awkward relationship. 
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I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.If anyone is looking for an answer to this question I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.
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You should talk about it and try to resolve things peacefully; most of the time the love will go away and it is only a temporarily crush. so try to keep friendship or make it a fair battle to win
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Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.As of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked above.Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.
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It's important to know if"the person"love any of you,how can you love a person if you don't know for shure if tha person loves you ore not?
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I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.
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You get honest with each other to avoid breaking your friendship. Since it will be difficult since the person you both like can only choose one of you you should agree that whoever is chosen. You accept it. 
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That is quite a positive mindset and perspective it will keep you optimistic no matter the situationBy reading this I have managed to add up on my knowledge about this topic this is very useful information about the topicThis is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.
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I would personally ask the girl I like who she prefers and well, if she tells me that I'm moving away from my friend, and if don't fight for her
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I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.This is quite a reasonable and knowledgeable answer and I think you are quite right considering the angle you are seeing the question from.
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The best thing to do is to sit down and talk it out as friends and see what's best for your,and if you guys are really friends I strongly believe you will come to an agreement.
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This case actually happned between me and my bestfriend when we were at school. She loved a boy, whom I just had crush, but the boy want to date us both he was like I love you, but I also like her. So what we did at the end was me and my bestfriend both leave him, after few year we got to know that he was already in the relationship when he was hiting on us.
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If it happens, may the best man win? I am sure he would not mind having this proposal. If not, then I will just let it go and be a good friend by supporting him all throughout.
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that is a very hard one as your feelings dont just go away i gues u just have to let be what will be and not have bad thoughts or hold grudges if it doesent go in your favour
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Tough spot to be in.that kind of situation makes or breaks a friendship. I believe if you find yourselves in such a situation you sit down and come to a mutual agreement that is suitable for the both of you.
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This can be very abnormal for two companions to adore a similar individual. However unusual as it very well might be, put forth and attempt to discuss it. First it facilitates any strain that it might have caused and you might wind up understanding that one of you isn't actually into that individual and other individual will keep them. I've seen cases like this where one companion eases off for the other.

While certain individuals wouldn't see any problems, others will feel like it is harming their inner self. To safeguard their fellowship, a few companions choose to both let it go. Others quit being companions which is horrendous as I would see it. How ever senseless you might feel, you should stop briefly to chat with your companion. The said individual ought to likewise be permitted to go with fair-minded choices. I would have no desire to be enamored with a similar individual as my companion.
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It's always said if you love someone let them go if they belong to you they will surely come back, so if my friend and I are in love with the person I will just allow him choose because it also possible he does not love you and you fighting over what is not yours is a waste of time and energy.
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If i really love the person and i find out my friend is also interested, i would just meet the person i ask the person to tell me the truth, if she really loves me.
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I've sacrificed the same girl for two friends. Last 2013, there was a friend of mine who loved the girl I loved and actually she's my best friend that I love. I've distanced myself to see if my best friend will also like the guy but she didn't. Same aspect last 2019 when another friend liked her and I've distanced myself again. But still that didn't work. I can feel my girl best friend also like me that's why she didn't mind those
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It is best to communicate with your friend and try to resolve the situation in a respectful and understanding manner. It may be necessary to have a candid conversation about your feelings and discuss the best way to move forward. Ultimately, it may be necessary to respect each other's boundaries and allow the person to make their own decisions about who they want to be with. It is important to prioritize the well-being and happiness of all involved parties and try to handle the situation with maturity and compassion.
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The best thing to do in this situation is to have an honest and open conversation with your friend. Talk to them about how you both feel, and make sure you both demonstrate respect and understanding. It may be helpful to discuss boundaries and expectations, and agree on how you will both approach the situation. Ultimately, it is important to be honest and to strive to come to a mutually beneficial solution.
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This is awkward and nonsense of the highest order of a person and his best friend loving one person.both of you can't be treated equally and for the sake of peace and respect quite that relationship.
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this is very worst situation in life. you should leave your love for your friend. this is great sign of great human beings. you can love with other one
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If you and your friend love the same person, it is best to stay in touch and share any exciting new developments. If you both are interested in staying in touch, that is a good idea as well.
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