What would you do if your friend is loving the same person you are into?
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This is a very rare situation and the decision to take in situations like these depends on the circumstances surrounding the affairs because ordinarily two friends should not be in love with one person.
However, if initially both of them are not aware that were dating the same person for a long time then the best thing is for them to both leave the person in question to safe their friendship interest.
If one out of the friend decided to play smart by betraying his other friend to date his girlfriend, in cases like this the first friend should free the lady with his betrayer friend to continue their affairs because if he press further he might be endangering his life as he can neither trust his friend nor the lady in question.
However, if initially both of them are not aware that were dating the same person for a long time then the best thing is for them to both leave the person in question to safe their friendship interest.
If one out of the friend decided to play smart by betraying his other friend to date his girlfriend, in cases like this the first friend should free the lady with his betrayer friend to continue their affairs because if he press further he might be endangering his life as he can neither trust his friend nor the lady in question.
The love triangle or more is normal in the society.You love her, he love her, other person loved her, too. Sometimes, in the love triangle, there is one person should give up and just live the other to have the one they love.It is depends too in the situation if the girl loves you and not your friend, maybe your friend will understand you. And if the girl loves your friend, then live to your friend to have the girl. It is hard situation but not too complicated I guess. For me, if I and my friend love the same person, I will give it to her.I want to see my friend happy and I hope she will feel the same with mine.
This scenario is the same with Boys over flowers, the Korean Novela. Where two character love Gum Jhan Di, and the other guy didn't pursue his love to her because his best friend loved her too much.This is a good example of letting go.
This scenario is the same with Boys over flowers, the Korean Novela. Where two character love Gum Jhan Di, and the other guy didn't pursue his love to her because his best friend loved her too much.This is a good example of letting go.
It is easy to say you love a person, but have you ever dated this person? Were the two of you dating him at the same time? It sounds like the both of you know this man and you are both friends with him. The real question of love is your relationship with him. Are you both dating him at the same time? This can be a sticky situation of this is happening. I feel there is more to this story or question that you aren't saying right now. That makes it very hard to give a great answer to you in the end. Well here is my thoughts on this one.
If she is really your friend then you should be able to sit down and have a conversation with her. You should be able to talk freely about this man and tell each other how you feel. Find out the truth behind this and why she is in love with him. Find out if she is dating him and they have a relationship together. Let her know if you are dating him and if you have a relationship with him.
In the end, you will have to decide how to handle this and not hurt your friend or get hurt by your friend. This will be hard if you both are dating this man at the same time. If this is the case I would take a good look at this man and decide if it is worth your time or energy. If a man is dating you and your best friend is he really a man you want to continue to see?
If she is really your friend then you should be able to sit down and have a conversation with her. You should be able to talk freely about this man and tell each other how you feel. Find out the truth behind this and why she is in love with him. Find out if she is dating him and they have a relationship together. Let her know if you are dating him and if you have a relationship with him.
In the end, you will have to decide how to handle this and not hurt your friend or get hurt by your friend. This will be hard if you both are dating this man at the same time. If this is the case I would take a good look at this man and decide if it is worth your time or energy. If a man is dating you and your best friend is he really a man you want to continue to see?
Love is worth fighting for. You need to fight. Do all you can to win the person you love. Groom yourself, talk sweetly, learn what they love and do them. If you become in favour of the other person, the better. If the other person trounces you then it means the love was not for you. Leave and move on. You will get your love somehow.
Moral of the story: Be honest with your friend and tell your friend about your feelings. Be okay with him having feelings for the same girl. Value your friendship and respect girl's decision too. Be prepared to be rejected at the same time accept if they both be together.
I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimistic.
Well, it depends on your crush. If your crush is inlove on your friend you must let go. And if your crush is inlove with you, then you should talk to to your friend.
Someone will be accepted and someone will get denied.
Someone will be accepted and someone will get denied.
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Just show your love to her, and let your friend do it as well. Always be friend with him and compete without fights. Let the girl to choose who she loves. If she loves of you two, let she thinks who will give a better future if she married.
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It is an abnormal situation if this occurs it means that this friendship will break. I personally would just leave the person for my friend cause I would not like to be tied in such an awkward relationship.
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You should talk about it and try to resolve things peacefully; most of the time the love will go away and it is only a temporarily crush. so try to keep friendship or make it a fair battle to win
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It's important to know if"the person"love any of you,how can you love a person if you don't know for shure if tha person loves you ore not?
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You get honest with each other to avoid breaking your friendship. Since it will be difficult since the person you both like can only choose one of you you should agree that whoever is chosen. You accept it.
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This case actually happned between me and my bestfriend when we were at school. She loved a boy, whom I just had crush, but the boy want to date us both he was like I love you, but I also like her. So what we did at the end was me and my bestfriend both leave him, after few year we got to know that he was already in the relationship when he was hiting on us.