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Now this is a tricky one considering the age that the hurt began, we know that when children go through traumatic experiences, they do not forget it that easy it takes a while before they can get it out of their minds. the picture lingers in their minds for longer as opposed to grownups. A child will not choose to forget and move on because they will be busy asking questions and wondering why it all happened. the best way to go about all this is choosing to make a decision in your life that, that hurt will not get the best of you and that life has better things to offer. that way you will move on.
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I never really held onto those painful childhood experiences. Although they were minor hurt done to me then, but there were more exciting fun loving memories than the pain. I guess that's why I can't seem recollect any of them
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In that situation,I think you need some help and ask for closure for the person who involve with it.
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It's not easy getting over being abused as a child in your own home. Most people don't get over it in their entire life. It takes a strong willed personality to survive such treatment as a child. 

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I can relate with this especially children from polygamous home,it can really be daunting to be born into an abusive, violent or nonchalant attitude home towards member of the family.

This is what parents don't know,the expose the young minds(kids) to all sorts of pain and because each person has a certain threshold for pain ,it could either make or mar their childhood and life's journey.

All the same life must go on,try to seek professional help from experts.

Brace up and try to live above such pains

Try to live better so that such trend wouldn't continue especially with your own kids.

You can seek closure from close friends,you can let out the pains and close that chapter of your life.

Don't forget to let your heavenly father heal you completely. Pray to him.
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Thank you for the advice. I need it badly these days. This is very helpful to me.
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Yes God is our father in all our stand we should seek help from Him He will never let us down. 
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He is the person who send is the sorrow and watch and enjoy how we have the pain. If he think he can't send the sorrow, so for making us call him he send sadness and enjoying it.

Those who experience the pain will understand the real nature of it.
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Time heals and make sure you surround yourself with happy and nice people who will transfer that happiness to you, you have to also make up your mind to heal and move on, other wise you will still be affected by the pains, so the decision is yours to remain in pain or put aside the pain and move on. 
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Yes. Time is everything. Be positive and always seek happiness from people who are true to you such as Tel and genuine friends. It's hard to forget the painful past but time will eventually help you cross that bridge. 
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Childhood pain is one of the most haunting experiences a person can have and it might affect someone's future. As you grow up you understand things and can learn from others. Sharing experiences with others and seeking advice will help. Surround your self with happy people and engage in constructive jobs. 
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i dont think we do actualy heal from it i think we learn to deal with it in our own way and become more careful  with our own feelings and emotions
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1. Seek professional help. It can be hugely beneficial to talk to a qualified mental health professional about your childhood experiences. A therapist can help you process your emotions and memories and provide tools to help you cope with the pain.

2. Self-care. Take the time to practice self-care and nurture yourself. This could include things like exercise, journaling, talking to friends, and taking time to relax and practice mindfulness.

3. Reconnect with your inner child. Spend time thinking about the child you were and the experiences that shaped you. Look for ways to forgive and let go of the pain and hurt.

4. Learn healthy boundaries. Knowing your boundaries and learning to communicate them are essential to healing from childhood trauma.

5. Reach out for support. Find a supportive group or community and reach out for help when you need it. This can be a great way to find comfort and understanding.
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Sometimes is very hard to heal from our childhood experiences and situations.but the Best thing is to seek guidance and counseling then forget and move on.
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There is no one way to heal from your childhood pain. You will need to find an approach that works for you and that is open to being feedback about what works and doesn't work for you. I would say it is important to have support from a professional when healing and to be willing to explore what may be new or helpful in order to keep healing.
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Acknowledge and recognize the trauma for what it is.

Reclaim control. 

Seek support and don't isolate yourself.

Take care of your health.

Learn the true meaning of acceptance and letting go.

Replace bad habits with good ones. 

Be patient with yourself.
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A child will not choose to forget and move on because they will be busy asking questions and wondering why it all happened. the best way to go about all this is choosing to make a decision in your life that, that hurt will not get the best of you and that life has better things to offer. that way you will move on.
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