When you are just starting to get to her, it would be best to extend patience towards her. By the time you get to meet and have exchange enough information about your lives to be comfortable then you probably can ask about the nature of her profession so that way you could manage your expectations. Cutting her some slack is also recommended given that your are just starting to be acquainted. That means she may or may not have some reservations, expectations and fear. But, until you have known enough about her and her life, there is no need to doubt her intentions.