Can you make love with your old lover who is married ?

Question

You were in love with a girl and both of you promised to mary each other but she later left you and got married to another man.Now she is begging and crying to continue with you even though she is still living with her husband.

Answer 1

If you are engaged in a romantic and sexual relationship with someone who is already married, you are committing adultery. And adultery is wrong and contrary to God's clear and direct commandment. So here is the exact answer to your conundrum.

Comments

I like your answer,As a christian,I strongly believe that there is always a serious punishment for adultery.even curse.

Answer 2

No, your ex lover is already have a partner. There is no explanation or good reason that a person can say for this situation. No one deserves to be betrayed.

Answer 3

Engaging in a relationship with someone who is married would be unethical and potentially illegal. It is important to respect the commitment and vows made by individuals in a marriage and refrain from actions that could harm or disrupt their relationship.

Answer 4

It is generally considered unethical to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with someone who is already married, as it can cause harm to the person's current relationship and potentially lead to feelings of betrayal and hurt. Additionally, engaging in such a relationship could be considered adultery, which is illegal in some places. It is important to consider the potential consequences and to respect the commitments of others.

Answer 5

No, it is not ethical or legal to have a relationship with someone who is married. Regardless of who the person is, it is important to respect the commitments that have been made and the sanctity of marriage.

Answer 6

The point in this question is that there has been a commitment issues.

The person/s are clearly not mature enough to be able to own Her/His own decisions in life.

IF we will be asking the question " Can You make love with your old lover  who is married? " we need to look into the question as objective as possible . No excuses can justify adultery that is why it was punishable by death in the old times. When someone gets married , He/She is publicly , professing that She/He is in a lifetime commitment to another person NO MATTER WHAT.  

Answer 7

youre suggesting adultery in your question which is not morally right and is against the bible texts so to answer your question you cannot make love with someone who is married

Answer 8

I can't see my self making love with her again, i can forgive and accept her as my friend, but anything romantic is off, and besides i would commit adultery.

Answer 9

No. She is already in a relationship and her husband might hurt you or her if you try to ruin their relationship. Make love is not an ideal word for something that is not even love. What you are doing is morally wrong.

Answer 10

If she's begging and crying to still continue with you even if she's already living with her husband, that might be the consequence that she has to face. They have vowed to each other, their wedding is sacred, as his wife she should be loyal and committed to her man. She should have take you into consideration before even getting married. Well, unless she knew to herself that she can still get you regardless of what her status is so it wouldn't really matter that much to her. Now, it is all up to you if you want to get involve and would like to have a contribution to a possible "broken trust/relationship" if ever.

Answer 11

No, it is not appropriate to love your old lover who is married. It is important that she honors the covenant she has made with her husband and remains faithful to her moral code.

Answer 12

Don't go back, if she loved you, she won't have left you at the first place. Now that she knew she had made a bad choice she's coming back.,forgive but don't forget. 

Answer 13

It would be immoral and maybe unlawful to pursue a romantic connection with someone who is already in a committed relationship. It is vital to respect the commitment and vows made by persons in a marriage and to abstain from activities that might injure or disrupt their relationship. Respecting the commitment and vows made by individuals in a marriage is crucial.

Answer 14

It is not advisable nor morally acceptable to engage in a sexual relationship with someone who is married, regardless of whether they are an old lover or not. It can cause emotional pain, damage the marriage, and lead to negative consequences.

Answer 15

That is not love, it is lack of respect and it is a sin. Marriage institutions are meant to be respected. If you love the person as you claimed , you ought to respect the fact that she/he is married and should encourage her/him to be a faithful partner. 

Answer 16

No excuses can justify adultery that is why it was punishable by death in the old times. When someone gets married , He/She is publicly , professing that She/He is in a lifetime commitment to another person NO MATTER WHAT.  

Answer 17

No, your ex is committed to someone else and you should not think their relationship. This is a wrong practice both in the eyes of God and yourself also. 

Answer 18

This may seem tempting but my answer is no. Reason being the person is married and that would be committing adultery in God's eyes. How about if you current girlfriend found out you are cheating on her with your ex-girlfriend how do you think she will feel. Tell her you are not interested and you moved on with your life already.