When it comes to discussing certain topics with my partner, I find it challenging to open up about our past relationships. I get a bit jealous when she talks about her previous romances, and, in turn, I tend to keep my own past relationships private. This hesitation to discuss past love interests often stems from feelings of insecurity and a desire to maintain some level of privacy.
One reason for my reluctance is the fear that her past relationships might overshadow our current ones or, in some way, negatively affect what we have now. I sometimes struggle with comparing myself to her previous partners, which can trigger jealousy and insecurity. Moreover, I value personal boundaries and privacy, which makes me inclined to avoid delving into my own past relationships as well. These conversations can sometimes lead to emotional turmoil or misunderstandings, so for the sake of maintaining harmony in our relationship, I tend to steer clear of their topic.