Delegation. During the planning stages of a wedding, everyone has their idea and what should or should not be done. Normally families are the worst. They want to tell you how to do it. This is the hardest part to keep calm and try to please everyone. Well, this won't happen because it is your wedding and you need to be happy on the big day. Here are a few ideas to help make the planning successful and in the end make both sides of the family happy.