In front of others/acquaintances, he acts serious and distant. Sometimes, he acts like he doesn't know me, never smiles, will not look at me, acts as if he doesn't care and turns away from me.
In front of others/acquaintances, he acts serious and distant. Sometimes, he acts like he doesn't know me, never smiles, will not look at me, acts as if he doesn't care and turns away from me.
6 Signs That Man Is Playing The Mind Game With You
Men are often forthright about their affections for a woman. However, if your partner loves to keep you guessing about how he feels about you, there are several ways tell-tale symptoms that he's playing mind games.
Hot And Cold Behaviour
You used to text each other continuously for days and weeks before he abruptly stopped contact with you without warning or justification. You're worried and curious about what happened to him. But he reappears a few days or weeks later, this time with an implausible justification. This is referred to as "hot and cold conduct." He is been online, but he hasn't messaged you yet.
Not As Good As His Words
You go out on a date with this man, and you both appear to be having a nice time. He texts you immediately after the date, requesting to meet up. You accept and wait for him to ask you out, but he never sends you a message. You text him, tired of waiting and inquire about the date. He's now giddy since you have been waiting for him and are interested in him. He basically piqued your attention and kept you waiting so you could track him down.
Remarks About Your Appearance
You'll hear him say things like "You should work out more regularly to seem more appealing, or You should try a haircut that will make your Facebook thinner, after a few visits with him. When a man thinks that you're too wonderful for him, he will try to destroy your self-esteem by seeming uninterested in your beauty. He wants you to feel that you aren't as appealing as you think and that he is the one who is settling for a compromise in your relationship with such words. This is a subtle hint that he plans to play mind games.
This Guy Calls You Several Times
He makes intricate preparations for the day, and promises to be there but never shows up. You make an attempt to contact him, but he is unavailable. He'll turn up a few days later, apologising and offering to make amends. He may or may not reconcile with you, but he will undoubtedly abandon you once more. You get the impression he's dangling a carrot, and you chase after him.
He Is Playing With Your Emotions
When you're together, he will probably ask you how you feel about him a lot. You share your love and devotion for him by opening your heart to him. You could anticipate him to express his affections for you, but he will shift the subject instead. If he is conceited, he can even taunt you by expressing his desire to date another female while knowing how you feel about him. Such males delight in taunting women and playing with their emotions, and they frequently do without feeling guilty.
Keep Touch Solely For Sex
You notice that this guy you're seeing is AWOL most of the time, but when he wants sex, he suddenly showers you with attention. He will go days without responding to your message, but then appear active and interested in you. He may even make false promises about his affection for you, but his action never matches what he says. If this is the situation with you, he is taking advantage of you. Get as far away from him.