Choosing a life partner is a very important decision to make and one that must be done carefully or else you will live the rest of your life regretting. I must confess, this is a hard decision for me to make, I am too choosy. Sometimes I find myself looking for physical appearances in a man instead of the moral characteristics.
In choosing a life partner, I will consider the following in a man;
1. The ability to understand.
The quality of understanding is a very important trait in any relationship. Without it, it won't stay long. I need a man who understands that I am a woman with varied emotions. Sometimes I will be so moody and messy.
2. Fatherly nature.
My mother taught me that for a relationship to be long lasting, I should look for a man that is comparable to my dad. A man who I look at him and see my dad in him. This man is guaranteed to take good care of my children and I.
3. God fearing man.
A man who fears God, respects a woman. This man knows the goodness of being faithful and caring. All the good qualities are enhanced in him if he fears God.
4. Fun loving man.
I don't need an all time serious man. I need someone who understands the goodness of having fun. Going out on vacations, celebrating birthdays and anniversaries, going to parties and taking a second honeymoon.
There are a lot more qualities, this are just but a few. They all require patience for a good man to show up. I also need to work on myself so that I can meet his requirements.