Suppose theoretically I get whatever I want, from a new car to a new phone, and I don't work for it. But, say I also don't flaunt my riches. Am I a spoiled rotten brat or decent person?
I think you are not a spoiled brat in this situation, but greedy for having these things at the expense of money of others. It is best to work hard and have the tangible things after.
Theoretically you are neither you are just lucky you have capable parents. But if down the line that leads you to make fun of others or something like that the you can say you are not nice.
Thats a great priviledge if you can get anything you want without stress, then you have to be grateful and shareful, be always thank GOD because if you don't it will make you a spoiled brat