Choose love or future?

Question

In a condition where you truely love your patner and dream of spending whole life with him, but he is not serious about anything even after getting opportunity he don't to work hard and doesn't care about future or have any planning, then what should one do?

Answer 1

You should try to engage him in more serious activities like working hard in school and going to school to learn new things, or going to businesses and becoming a part of a team to make things happen in the future. You should also be honest with him and say that you don't want to continue spending time with him right now, because you want to focus on the future.

Answer 2

I think you should first have a discussion with him, let him the know the disadvantages of continuing in such path. Give him sometime to observe changes before your final decision.

Answer 3

I think future depends on our capabilities and love depends on our destiny . We can make ourselves capable to make our future better but destiny does not give chance every time.