Every couple is different, and there is no definitive answer to this question. What is important is that each partner feels comfortable and connected. After orgasm, couples should take time to connect with each other and take care of their own needs. This could include spending time snuggling, talking about the experience, or engaging in activities that help them relax and restore. It’s important for couples to recognize that each partner has different needs, and to find ways to meet those needs. Depending on the couple's situation, time spent together after orgasm could range from a few minutes to a few hours. Ultimately, the length of time spent together should be based on what each partner needs in order to feel taken care of and connected.