When two people enter into the a married sacrament, both agreed and promise to take their shares. But this, for some does not happen, for some of us do not understand what is the real meaning of the words we ought to say in front of the Lord and to everyone who witness the vows. Yes, we are married! Okay, you are married, so what is next? When married start to live together in one wall, that is means they are one, what is everything on the house is both theirs. Chores in the house must be shared, but when a woman get pregnant, she decided to stay at home mom, and the man will only work now for the family that they created. The wife will do everything in the house including the new member of the family, child. As usual, man wake up every morning and go to work, go home and relax and go to sleep. This is common to every household.but behold, men and women,. should help each other. Men when you come home from work, hug your wife and kiss to your child, play with your child while wife do in the kitchen for dinner, then share the supper together. The wife now clean up the table and husband can help with the dishes so it will finished quickly and can spent time together in the lounge and make the baby asleep with turn overs. But again this is not reality. Th reality is opposite where husband after finished eating his dinner will go back to the lounge and sit and watch tv, while wife will continue the chores in the kitchen. This is true and Im one of them.