What are the drawback of doing revenge ? Will it give any happiness or peace of mind? What all will lost on taking revenge? It is a good behaviour for a religious people to do revenge or to forgive?
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If your opinion on revenge was like that , then why did you take revenge? What did you got from revenge? Life long trouble on seeing your daughter in unhealthy condition will be the result of your revenge. Sometimes it will not affect you because you are not concern of her education,health and future. If you are concerned, then you will not do this knowing that such things will happen to your kid. Your are only thinking of yourself and your sorrow and do revenge. You are not concern of atleast your daughter? Did you know what all issue your kid had now do to your revenge? It was the final result that you get from this. I will not pray or believe in god anymore. So what you did will be a waste of money and time. You have destroyed the faith that I had in god.
Do not waste your time in revenge. The tables turn when time comes and you should not be thinking or worrying about that. Focus on your mental wellbeing, grow and heal. Happiness and peace of mind is very personal and you should not depend on others for these things you will not be happy if your medium of happiness comes through revenge on someone. Its okay if you cannot forgive. Its not always necessary to forgive, yet you can choose to move on.
People who are doing revenge didn't get understand that they it self is getting loosing money,pride and health. Think what all you lost by taking revenge against anyone. Will a person will get blessing from god by doing revenge and get teared. The person doing the revenge itself is getting everything lost. One year,health of both baby and mother , money for court etc are getting lost. Also you have to be answerable to the god for making a widower and child to face all such trouble. Sure your all will get in return.
Depends on the situation. If someone did too much bad with you and also hurt you. Can say that crossed all the limits then you must take revenge. Forgiving and forgetting is not always te best option. In order to make him realize that he did wrong then you must take revenge. A limitless person desn't follow advises. You can also ignore him. I think ignoring someone is the best revenge you can ever take.
The ignorance was the best blessing I got. Because daily calling and talking 2 to 4 hours was very heavy burden and intolerable. Also putting head in each and every thing and giving unnecessary advice was very headache. Now for last 5 years such unnecessary calls and directions and restrictions are avoided. Very much thankful for that's for both of us. Some people are un aware of the difficulties they are making towards other by the call.
Don't pay attention to the. Actually they are free and have nothing to do so they make wrong calls and tease others. At first I got problems but afterwards I started to tease them back. It satisfied me to an extent lol. I always told my genders female to female and male to male so that they can't call or message me again.
No one was born to do crime or wrong. The situations and circumstances or some people make them to do so. Better to claim or do revenge after knowing what had happened. Someday you will understand that you are the root cause for what had happened. Then time goes and relationship can't get back.
Yes the situation makes them wrong but every time we are not the root cause. If a person teases you regularly and that person is unknown to you and gradually he discloses your personal details that means that he's crossing limits. I said that revenge must be taken in such circumstances in which a person has crossed all the limits and he needs the right path not every time he needs revenge.
When a person said something after saying that to keep it secret and later the person disclosed it publicly make the circumstances verse. One should keep your promise before disclosing it publicly. Should have a mind to talk freely with wife and share both the difficulties and happiness. Without open mind and open talks and understanding , relationship cannot move forward. Speaking openly between couples can solve many problems without a meeting. A third person interaction will only ruin the relationship.
I just gave condition that if a person did too much wrong. I hope you understand too much wrong. Just to make him realize his mistake take revenge. It doesn't mean to kill someone or to harm him. I simply told to ignore that person because it can make him realize his mistake and I really think that couples also do the same in order to make their partner realize the mistake. If your partner is not listening to you then don't you think you should ignore him in order to convey your message?