No, it is not wrong to want to be wanted and taken care of in a marriage. We all have a need to feel wanted, respected, and appreciated. It is important to have a relationship that is mutually supportive and beneficial to both partners. That said, it is important to take care of yourself before marriage. You should be focused on your own mental and emotional health, making sure that you are financially secure, and that you are taking care of your needs and goals. Taking care of yourself will help ensure that you can enter a marriage with a strong foundation for a successful relationship.