Why can't I sleep when my boyfriend is out?

Question

I can't sleep unless I am with my boyfriend. I feel depressed. I don't know why? But I feel very bad during night time if he is not in bed. What could be the reason?

Answer 1

Look for happiness outside your boyfriend, this does not mean you should disassociate with your boyfriend. While he is out, you can do something that will make him happy when he returns. Build your life around love and not a particular person, but let your boyfriend feel that love when he is around. 

Answer 2

It often happens. You are used to sleeping with your boyfriend and when he is out sleep evades you. It seems you miss something out. Learn to cope with his absence.

I won't suggest you get another sidekick but I suggest you cope up.

Answer 3

It depends. You miss him much or you can't trust him that he can cheat while you both are in a distant place. If he loves you, he won't cheat. If he wants to cheat, he must set you free.

Answer 4

Build your life around love and not a particular person, but let your boyfriend feel that love when he is around. 

Because you love your boyfriend very much, when he goes out of the house you miss him   so you don't sleep

Answer 5

It is because you are so concerned about your boyfriend. I am sure you are going to feel the same way with close friends, relatives, or family members. It is a normal feeling that we are concern with their safety and want to be with them as much as possible. That is the power of unconditional love.

Answer 6

You're very dependent to your boyfriend, and he always makes you feel safe. Or you very crave for your boyfriend that don't want other people be with him. Other possibility is you have the sixth intstint which could be he's cheating or is facing a problem out there.

Answer 7

You can not sleep without him because he comforts you, makes you feel safe and loved when he is close to you that he is someone you can wake up with and just smile its common don't think it's an unusual thing. I'm a cuddler myself my love sign is touch, I love being touched but I think it's up to you to try and not be so dependent on him, relieve you can sleep without him you once did it before when he wasn't in the relationship. 

Answer 8

You need to be yourself . Love your boyfriend and also remember to take care of yourself . You can make communication with him and try to do something constructive while he's not around. You have strong love for him and that's great.

Answer 9

Maybe because just you love him

You think about him a lot and you fear from happening something to him

It's the overthinking when you think a lot your brain will still active and to sleep we need to turj him off

Answer 10

Maybe you have gotten so addicted with sleeping with your boyfriend or may be you are just afraid that he might be with another girl at that time.

Answer 11

You get used to sleeping with him every night. You are not used to sleeping alone on your bed. Maybe you are also bothered and thinking of your boyfriend at the moment that's why you are uncomfortable on your own. Your mind is not relaxed in that state. Find ways that will feel relaxed maybe calling him before you sleep might help. Do things that will help you feel asleep at night when you are in bed. 

Answer 12

You just love Him so much or maybe you're afraid what would happen to Him when he's not around. Try to trust him more so that even you can help yourself be calmed even though he's not around you. Or maybe talk to Him to chat you if he's going out for you to sleep at peace.

Answer 13

Once you are used to sleeping next to your partner it becomes a problem to sleep alone because you feel lonely and unable settle mind.

Answer 14

You cannot sleep when you boyfriend is out because either you does not trust him or he shows love to you,if you know he is cheating on you you need to forget about him, and focus on yourself that even you can do without him

Answer 15

this situation happens when your vagina need penus but your boyfriend is out of home. so vagina is waiting excitedly to take long and stiff penus inside 

Answer 16

It is possible that you are experiencing anxiety or a feeling of insecurity when your boyfriend is not with you. This feeling can cause difficulty sleeping. It is important to talk to your partner about your feelings and to find healthy ways to cope with your anxiety. You can also try practicing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing and mindfulness to help reduce the anxious feelings. Additionally, speaking to a mental health professional can be helpful in understanding the source of your anxiety and developing strategies to manage it.