Acknowledge the situation. Sometimes people try to stay in denial when they face a tough situation. However the longer you try to avoid the problem, the longer it will take to address it. Even if you can't change the situation, acknowledging it can help you accept it and move on.
Seek help when necessary. Asking for help can be a sign of strength and courage. Don't be afraid to look for help in a variety of ways to help you cope with a tough situation in life.
Change what you can. Identify what is within your control and resolve to make a change. If you can't change the situation, you may be able to change your attitude. For example, if you're dealing with the death of your grandfather, you can't do anything to bring him back. However, you can change how you choose to view the situation.
Life is too precious. Don't waste your time trying to please everyone, please God instead.