Both...it always takes two to Tango. Many have been bullied over say the last hundred years, yet few have gone on a killing spree. Many have bullied over say the last hundred years, yet few have paid the price at the hands of their victims. I have zero sympathy for bullies that get their comeuppance from them they have bullied. Zero! I dealt a harsh lesson to quite a few bullies while growing up, but I stopped at broken bones and nerve damage. I've no doubt they deserved a lot worse!