How many years you spend not talking to someone who hurt you?

Question

Have you ever decided to stop talking to someone and years passed and till now you don't talk to them .

Comments

the decision of how long to go without talking to someone who has hurt you is a personal one and will depend on your individual circumstances and needs.

Answer 1

I never kept malice with anybody, am a sweet, cool and loving guy who don't love stress, i try to avoid anything that would make or stop us for talking to each other.

Answer 2

I have an evil aunt and haven not talk to her for more than three years now. It is best not to be in contact with her for putting my family down since I was a child.

Comments

Things like this happen in many families and i can understand you , always there is a devil person in a family so things depend of what she did and if you can forgive her or no.

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There is a evil minded uncles in our family. who wanted everything owned by their brother and thrown the rest of the family outside the house. 

Answer 3

No, because I am a soft-hearted person. Whenever I have a misunderstanding with another person, I am always the one to make it up to him or make peace with him first even if it is his fault. So, I have never experienced not talking to other people just because of a misunderstanding, especially if that someone is my loved one. 

Answer 4

Yes, I am like that. If someone hearts me, I tired to avoid her or him. To a great extend I will not talk to her. Even if they comes to me i hate them.

Comments

I can't forgive whom I cared more, had made me sad and hurted. I will never talk to them or be with them.

Answer 5

This I can't answer easily because I don't really care even if I did I wouldn't easily remember the years or time spent apart.

Answer 6

No I have not. It is good that we all love one another because life is too short for keeping malice with people around you.

Peace brings you wellness and that's what we all should strive for.

Answer 7

There are people who are clinically depressed which makes them go into a shell.

A depressed person can often be marred by so many thoughts that they just don’t want to talk. They also fear that if they talk, people will get to know that they are not happy and then ask several questions which they do not want to answer at all.

Answer 8

It depends on the situation. If the person hurt me in a way that was too damaging to repair, I may decide to end the relationship and not communicate with them again. In some cases, I may decide to take a break from the person and not communicate with them for a period of time, but eventually I may decide to reach out and try to repair the relationship.

Answer 9

Psychologists say you should wait at least two months until you ask the other person to be exclusive with you. You might decide to commit to each other sooner than that, but generally speaking, eight weeks is a good timeline. Keep in mind that this depends on how often you talk to your crush.