You can be infatuated because you are attracted, but I don't think it will turn to love. It will turn to love if you are weak and if you are just looking for a good looking one. If you are deep, then you should not be looking at the person physically. I know a friend, who's boyfriend is too fat for her. At first, of course, he was judge by the circle of friends and even make fun of him when we first met him. However, during sharing of thoughts, we found out how smart that person is and he even look responsible. Little by little, I realized what makes my friend fall for him was because he has a clear outlook in life and he is doing everything to achieve his goals. I am kinda turned off with people who do not have plans or even organization. He has it. For me, love is not about how you look but how you live your life and sharing those experiences for the benefits of others.