Yes, it is possible for men to have an understanding of the pain and difficulties involved in bringing up a child. Men can experience parenthood firsthand as fathers or through relationships with mothers, siblings, or other loved ones who have children. They may also have a general understanding of the physical and emotional challenges that can come with parenting through observation, conversations with others, or media depictions. It is important to recognize that both men and women can experience the joys and challenges of parenting, and that both can contribute significantly to the care and upbringing of children.